ive read that less than 10% of women orgasm from straight sex. oral sex definitely results in an orgasm. how true is that? because thats DEFINITELY scaring me from even bothering to have sex... (yeah... im a virgin on lush stories...wonder how frequent you find someone like me >.<)
I haven't done any research on the subject....I know some friends that can (or at least claim to - but I don't doubt that they can)....I personally find it impossible to orgasm without clit stimulation.... which I don't get from straight sex unless either me or my partner is being sneaky with our fingers.
I'm sure that if I say this I'll get a bunch of people going 'WHATTT??' but I personally think that sex can be good without it necessarily including an orgasm...yeah, course it'd be great to be able to slip an orgasm or two (or more!) in there, but there's been times I've had sex, haven't orgasmed and have still felt happy and satisfied.
It depends on each person, but not getting an orgasm from straight sex is absolutely not enough to put me off from having it!
I can only orgasm during normal sex if I'm on top so I can get the best clitoral stimulation, no other position will work for me although I get great pleasure from various positions especially doggy.
Oral and finger stimulation will almost always get me there.
In my experience you should learn to make her come by using your mouth and your fingers.... After you get used to each other she MIGHT come as you fuck her but really you should get her off before... And once she comes it's much easier to make her come again!!!
(With respect..... I've found that if if you take the time to make a a girl come BEFORE you actually fuck her, she's much more amenable to come again when you finally get into her..... )
Lucky Little Darlings!!!!!
xx SF
Its true, alot of women dont orgasm through just sex, they usually need clit stimulation as well. I never havem although im getting closer when im top and during oral.
Best thing to do is explore your body, get to know what you do and dont like so when you do get to it you can show him/her how you like it.
Even if you dont cum through sex, its still really good every time, so pleeease dont write it off til youve at least tried it! If you dont cum there are still other ways to satisfy you ;)
