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Flattering, sexy, gross, non-issue, don't care?

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For those of you that post nude or nearly nude pictures of yourself. Is this part of your exhibitionism? Do you like the fact the guys may be wanking to your pics? Even though you may not want them to actually tell you about it. I know getting inboxed or PMed with "I'm looking at your hooters and hooha while jacking my stuff..." isn't a good thing.

Is there any thrill that you may be the source of someone's masturbatory fantasy?



When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
I think you and I have talked about this before a few times, LM.

Yes, it definitely is/was part of my exhibitionism. Naively, I was really surprised at first that guys were "wanking" to my pics, because I don't think they're very graphic. I just assumed that guys only "wank" to pussy pics. I will be honest and say that I did like the positive feedback on my pics, but it never excited me that guys were jerking off. Truthfully, I really only care if one person gets enjoyment out of my pics.

Over time, it really has become a non-issue/don't care type of thing. I haven't put a new pic up in months and have no plans to add more pics. It can be a bit gross when you get an IM from someone you've never spoken to that says "I have precum oozing while I'm looking at your pics." Not sure where I'm supposed to go in the conversation from there. I've found that most guys have been pretty respectful with their comments. Maybe it's because of the type of pics I have? Not sure. If I found it to be a problem, I would've taken the pics down long ago.

Edit: I will say that I can do without any and all "picture evidence" that a guy has enjoyed my pics.
Ha, I have literally just had this conversation with a friend!! I was telling him how I had received a pic of a guy holding his erect penis with my AV blown up to full screen so that it almost looked life size... It really looked as if he was wanking over my cleavage - it was quite a clever pic and, because he actually is a good friend, I found it both funny and flattering at the time, as I believe it was done as a clever, sexy joke.

I've also had the 'I'm wanking with a picture of your butt on screen' sort of IMs and PMs from people I don't interact with and to be honest, that is a complete turn off to me. It's one of the main reasons I'm a little more choosy now in whom I accept friend requests from.
As a result I also mostly now don't appear online and I've removed all but a couple of pics, not that mine were particularly saucy in the first place...

If I have a close connection with a guy, then I find it a total turn on to be told how a picture may be arousing them, but only if there is that close connection...

Does that answer the question? You liked them, didn't you LM??
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I really havent found or at least havent had guys routinely tell me that they are whacking off to my pics. I have gotten many very nice compliments which is always nice. But my pics arent that revealing, well at least the ones that are visible to all arent. But to me it is like when i go out wearing a low cut top or a very short skirt or dress. I expect men and/or women to look and I do get get upset when they do. I am a bit of an exhibitionist so I find it exciting and flattering knowing that people find me hot enough to want to look at.

And if catching a glimps of my cleavage or nipples poking thru my top is fuel for someones fantasy, i take that as a compliment!!
Haven't had any wanking over my photos but I have had a few doing it over my stories
I only post pics,,,,, ah dangit, this is ask the girls
Yes it is part of my exhibitionism. If a friend tells me they are enjoying my pics I am flattered. Non friends can only sse my AV and if they wank off to that then ok I am flattered. I know I have wanked to pics of my friends...male and female.
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

I would like my pics to be enjoyed.
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Haven't had any wanking over my photos but I have had a few doing it over my stories


Your adorable profile picture is well worth a wank. But I have another filthy story to write so I will leave that picture unsoiled until another day.

As to the thread topic: in days of yore I have probably pulled my pud to the tune of just seeing an attractive woman on the street.

Boys will be boys. Men try to be more discreet. But women stir us to our D.N.A. As for my gay brothers out there, They have way to many women friends to be totally immune from the feminine mystique.

Shine on ladies. You are appreciated on many levels.
I'll be honest, i put my pics up to see what comments i would get and to get an ego boost. Thankfully it worked, i was always very very flattered from the comments i got and i never minded if someone said they were enjoying them

Its all just words on a screen to me so if someone tells what theyre doing to my pictures its so easy to disregard and i never gave it all a second thought. I guess it would be different if i saw someone doing it for real.

Ive taken my pictures down now cos im not on here much anymore but if i one day become a regular user again, they might just go back up
I'd say yes...I've always been comfortable with myself so taking provocative pics is just kinda fun for me. And since this is a site specifically for exploring our sexual and erotic sides, that just adds to the fun. Plenty of people in my real life have seen the same types of photos of me, so i guess i really have no shame lol. I figure if nude pics makes anyone uncomfortable, they'll find something else to look at.
I love to be desired...so I don't mind if men or women get off to my pics. It doesn't bother me b/c they are going to do it anyway.
i will not post naked pics on my profile! i think it gives a certain message- no dis respect to anyone who has them, i just wouldnt. Maybe if i got to know someone really well i would but thats only if i trusted them to a certain degree smile