I had tried it a couple of times with previous boyfriends and found it to be not worth the hype, then.
However, my current beau, and he's hung like a can of shaving gel, knows how to make me beg for it. It took weeks of preparation, but I finally got some of it in and WOW!!!! He knows how to be gentle, how to not be gentle, when, and I can't get enough (don't tell him, though).
I initially wanted to do it as a special thing just for him, just that once. Now I beg for it.
I do anal when my master and mistress tell me to. If he wants hard and fast access then normally I prepare with a plug or indeed my mistress uses a strapon on me. Otherwise he will just slowly enter stretching my rosebud. If I happen to be fertile then he knows I prefer him to cum in my ass.
It is planned, and at the height of passion, just telling him to do it gets me very excited. It takes a little patience, but I love it.
This is my collection of muses and stories. Stories of note include:
Little Bird - A true story of submission and dominance set in Paris between an older couple and their younger lover.
Le Weekend - Six lives intertwined during one weekend create events that change their lives forever.
If I may answer on behalf of wifey. She enjoys it, never asks for it though. If I'm pressing at her backdoor, she will tell me to go ahead. Oddly without lube and less tight than her pussy. I'm not the 1st to fuck her ass, see story on her losing her anal virginity. So I guess she actually enjoys it.