Gals eye for the queer guy

4 Jul 2020

Hello friends of another gender. Could you help me understand the female gaze a little better by sharing descriptions of men that you find sexy? I find when I write I write with a very male gaze. I am not, in fact, one of the male gays, but I have known I'm bisexual for about ten years. My tastes in this area is a little stereotypical, and worse, whilst I can tell which men I fancy, I usually can't say exactly why. At the very least I'd be curious to know how things look through your eyes - in part because it broadens one's horizons, but also because I'd like to get out of my authorial rut of solely writing muscle-bound, well endowed hunks or guys who look 'cute, in a geeky sort of way'. I'd be much obliged if you helped me expand my narrative palette.

Once there was a man with a little too much time on his hands...

4 Jul 2020

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Hello friends of another gender. Could you help me understand the female gaze a little better by sharing descriptions of men that you find sexy? I find when I write I write with a very male gaze. I am not, in fact, one of the male gays, but I have known I'm bisexual for about ten years. My tastes in this area is a little stereotypical, and worse, whilst I can tell which men I fancy, I usually can't say exactly why. At the very least I'd be curious to know how things look through your eyes - in part because it broadens one's horizons, but also because I'd like to get out of my authorial rut of solely writing muscle-bound, well endowed hunks or guys who look 'cute, in a geeky sort of way'. I'd be much obliged if you helped me expand my narrative palette.

hi John. i think that you are probably not going to get a definitive answer here, but i could be wrong. i think that it's going to vary from woman to woman and that you're going to discover that we have a wide variety of tastes in what we find sexy. i can answer for myself, tho. usually go for guys who are nicely toned, but not muscle bound. and a good face - a killer smile, friendly eyes, not so much into long hair on guys or facial hair. tatts are cool, as long as they veer torwards tasteful and possibly arty. not sure this helps, but there you go.

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4 Jul 2020

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hi John. i think that you are probably not going to get a definitive answer here, but i could be wrong. i think that it's going to vary from woman to woman and that you're going to discover that we have a wide variety of tastes in what we find sexy.

I very much hope this is the case - it would be a dull world indeed if there were one ideal of beauty, and my hope is to open my eyes a little wider and behold a little more. The details you've offered paint a gorgeous picture. It sounds silly but I wouldn't have thought to describe a guy's smile at all, but it says so much about a person. Thank you!

Once there was a man with a little too much time on his hands...

8 Jul 2020

I'm more attracted to girls, and the guys I find attractive are the ones who are pretty, like girls... boyish, slender, young or effeminate. Beautiful eyes and bubble-butts. Lots of hair on their head, none anywhere else. I've never been turned on by masculine traits. A lot of the guys I go for are gay, so I'm often barking up the wrong tree. lol

29 Jul 2020

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I'm more attracted to girls, and the guys I find attractive are the ones who are pretty, like girls... boyish, slender, young or effeminate. Beautiful eyes and bubble-butts. Lots of hair on their head, none anywhere else. I've never been turned on by masculine traits. A lot of the guys I go for are gay, so I'm often barking up the wrong tree. lol

You're far from alone - we men really mug ourselves thinking we have to conform to classical gender roles

Once there was a man with a little too much time on his hands...