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My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years and over the last year my girlfriend doesnt like being touched on her pussy or breasts.
She hasn't Wanted me to go down on here for nearly two years
I've tried everything I can think of. Romantic candles, baths, showering together, slow kisses and everything else
She doesn't like sex very much any more, we probably do it once a week... Compared to how it used to be (every day)
Any suggestions girls?
Ps - she has said in the past that she thinks she smells down there, I've told her she doesn't but I don't think she believes me
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Have you spoken about her lack of sex drive? Is it only because she thinks she "smells down there"? Did she not think that before when she did enjoy sex more? Can she be bored with your sex life? Could it be she is getting sex from someone else? Or did something traumatic happen to her to change her mind about sex that you do not know about? I am just guessing here but it just seems very strange that she went from wanting it every day to now not enjoying sex much at all.
My advice would be to sit down and have a nice talk about this. Tell her your concerns and try to get her to open up to you.
BTW, How old is she?
My advice would be to sit down and have a nice talk about this. Tell her your concerns and try to get her to open up to you.
BTW, How old is she?
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Hi to you too. 
It sounds like you've been in a relationship with your girlfriend for a long time and you seem committed to each other?
May I ask what you feel causes her to not enjoy or want sex as much as she used to?
That's got to be difficult for you and I wonder how you feel about it.
Can I ask what you feel is behind this?
It sounds like you've been in a relationship with your girlfriend for a long time and you seem committed to each other?
May I ask what you feel causes her to not enjoy or want sex as much as she used to?
That's got to be difficult for you and I wonder how you feel about it.
Can I ask what you feel is behind this?
In answer to bother your questions.
I have spoken to her about it many times but she denies anything is wrong. It would be impossible for her to be having sex with anyone else as we're together all the time
Take now for example- we were both in bed, me naked (as I usually am) we had a kiss and a cuddle (I obviously got hard) and then she says she has to go for a shower. I've tried going with her but she locks the door. During all this I tried touching her when we were kissing and she said "noo don't"
She's not on or anything so I'm confused - she just says she doesn't like it
I miss licking her or fingering her, it's getting annoying - especially when I love being touched. I usually resort to masturbating now
I have spoken to her about it many times but she denies anything is wrong. It would be impossible for her to be having sex with anyone else as we're together all the time
Take now for example- we were both in bed, me naked (as I usually am) we had a kiss and a cuddle (I obviously got hard) and then she says she has to go for a shower. I've tried going with her but she locks the door. During all this I tried touching her when we were kissing and she said "noo don't"
She's not on or anything so I'm confused - she just says she doesn't like it
I miss licking her or fingering her, it's getting annoying - especially when I love being touched. I usually resort to masturbating now
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I think you need to sit down with her and not just ask whats going on but make sure she knows and understands how its making you feel - hurt, rejected etc etc.
After that, she still might not be up for sex but it might make her more willing to walk about WHY she feels that way
That sounds like great advice.