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giving guy a blowjob :formality during sex or something else what is it
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Formality??? It's just fun. I love giving them. A bj doesn't have to be part of sex.
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Formality??? It's just fun. I love giving them. A bj doesn't have to be part of sex.
Ha! That just reminded me of Bill Clinton.
It's not a formality for me.
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I didn't mean it wasn't a sex act. I just meant you can give bjs without fucking and you can fuck without giving a bj. When you sneak into a closet with guy there's not usually time for both.
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giving guy a blowjob :formality during sex or something else what is it
Not a formality.
A blowjob is its own seperate act, for want of a better way of phrasing things, and can be done anywhere and anytime just for the sheer pleasure of it.
Before/during/after sex works wonderfully too but I'd hate to think it would be limited to that.
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Not a formality.
A blowjob is its own seperate act, for want of a better way of phrasing things, and can be done anywhere and anytime just for the sheer pleasure of it.
Before/during/after sex works wonderfully too but I'd hate to think it would be limited to that.
Exactly!
Sentiments my wife would would share.
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A bj can stand alone all by itself... It's something I enjoy doing for my partner. If it leads to more, that's great. If it doesn't, I like knowing I could do that for him. Obviously, it's better when the favor is returned.
"I'd much rather be a woman than a man. Women can cry, they can wear cute clothes, and they are the first to be rescued off of sinking ships."
— Gilda Radner
— Gilda Radner
Blow jobs are no formality haha. I give them because I love to, not because I have to. I haven't given one every time I've had sex with someone, nor have I had sex with someone every time I've given a blow job. Sometimes it's fun just to get on your knees and take your partner by surprise. If it leads to sex, cool. If not, that's ok. I'm happy if my guy is happy, and I know if I'm sucking his cock, he's happy.
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Lunch
BlowJobs and Brunch!
I always thought they went will with Brunch. Whats better than an Omlet, a few Mimosas and sucking some cock?
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The first sexual act I did to my new lover was a bj it wasn't a formality it just was something.
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I'll rarely even do it for him. It's mostly for me. Something about how his dick feeling in my month, I can't get enough of it. I have been known, on occasion, to give one at the bar or club or anywhere almost to give one cause someone actually asks for it. More then half they time they are surprised I say yeah. Love the look on their faces. 
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What's not to love about a blowjob?
I give them whenever, and my Daddy loves just having his cock sucked and licked just because I like doing it for him. No actual intercourse necessary. Just tasty goodness.
What's not to love about a blowjob?
I give them whenever, and my Daddy loves just having his cock sucked and licked just because I like doing it for him. No actual intercourse necessary. Just tasty goodness.
"Good writing is supposed to evoke sensation in the reader - not the fact that it is raining, but the feeling of being rained upon." -E.L. Doctorow
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Giving a blowjob is the farthest thing from formality - it is simply a wonderful gift between friends. It is simple, gentle and intimate. When I have a friend's penis in my mouth, I'm happy and I know what I'm doing gives him great pleasure. Its a gift that's easy to give. For me, it is not a transactional sex act - it is a gift of pleasure carved out in time that he and I can both enjoy. I'll be with friend at the movies, and might do it. Watching a movie or a game on tv - sometimes his penis just comes out of his pants or robe and finds its way into my mouth - and we both continue to enjoy our time. Its a wonderful stress-reliever, such as when we're at parents' house or some other place where we can't always have a normal sensual life.
There is no way its a formality during sex. That's the crap you see in porno.