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probably not by asking anonymous people on a sex stories website. *shrugs* my suggestion? try asking her, not us. btw, something that might help - how long ago did she give birth? pretty important info to know. having and raising a baby is pretty draining and time consuming.
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probably not by asking anonymous people on a sex stories website. *shrugs* my suggestion? try asking her, not us. btw, something that might help - how long ago did she give birth? pretty important info to know. having and raising a baby is pretty draining and time consuming.
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As Princess Sprite said, information like how long ago did she give birth, is she nursing, is she cosleeping, things like that, are sort of important.
One thing to consider, though, is that your wife may well just be "touched out". It's a real thing, and it happens very often to new mothers and mothers of multiple young children. I know it happened to me--when my two youngest, who are only just barely two years apart, were with me all the time, and I really never had a break--I was nursing the newborn constantly and both were cosleeping, the older one at naptime and the younger one all the time, I would get to the point where I didn't even want to be brushed up against, let alone hugged or otherwise shown affection. There was never a second where I wasn't being tugged on, nursed on, or otherwise giving my body over to my children--and my oldest, five at the time, still needed his mommy time when he came home from half-day kindergarten.
So talk to her, do some reading (the Sears line of parenting books, by Dr. William Sears and his sons and wife, really give good insight into the "touched out" syndrome), and really think about her day--does she get any kind of a break? Lots of people think that being a stay-at-home mum is some kind of vacation, but if you're in the constant nursing/changing diapers/nursing/doing laundry/nursing/changing diapers cycle, it really isn't. And then there's all the pressures put on a new mother--any mother, really--to do whatever current opinion has as "the right thing" for your child--the right preschool, the right playgroup, the right whatever. You are literally, as a mother, judged on everything, right down to the brand of stroller you choose to take your child out in. That wears on a person, too.
One thing to consider, though, is that your wife may well just be "touched out". It's a real thing, and it happens very often to new mothers and mothers of multiple young children. I know it happened to me--when my two youngest, who are only just barely two years apart, were with me all the time, and I really never had a break--I was nursing the newborn constantly and both were cosleeping, the older one at naptime and the younger one all the time, I would get to the point where I didn't even want to be brushed up against, let alone hugged or otherwise shown affection. There was never a second where I wasn't being tugged on, nursed on, or otherwise giving my body over to my children--and my oldest, five at the time, still needed his mommy time when he came home from half-day kindergarten.
So talk to her, do some reading (the Sears line of parenting books, by Dr. William Sears and his sons and wife, really give good insight into the "touched out" syndrome), and really think about her day--does she get any kind of a break? Lots of people think that being a stay-at-home mum is some kind of vacation, but if you're in the constant nursing/changing diapers/nursing/doing laundry/nursing/changing diapers cycle, it really isn't. And then there's all the pressures put on a new mother--any mother, really--to do whatever current opinion has as "the right thing" for your child--the right preschool, the right playgroup, the right whatever. You are literally, as a mother, judged on everything, right down to the brand of stroller you choose to take your child out in. That wears on a person, too.
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