Quote by Lisa
I'd spend the time wondering why he'd given me a hall pass.
That whole idea has trouble written all over it!
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Hall pass - interesting concept. I've been in a few "steady relationships" - I'm in one now. I do not own the guy, and he does not own me. We're together because what we have works. I hope I feel that way when I'm married - the vow is only as good as the love you have.
If I let him go - and he comes back - I'll know we're good. I might be a little hurt, but that hurt will make us stronger.
All that being said, if Bob tells me he's hot for Mary and just wants to go fuck her, we'll have to talk.
"Hall passes" require some ground rules ( at least I think they do). I'll give a Hall Pass, and if I ever want one, I hope I get one - but I don't think it should be a "I just want to out and get laid by someone else" = the Hall Pass should address some need or shortcoming in the relationship....
This is always a silly question. I agree that I would wonder why but that is very specific to each relationship. I also think that as middle age man I couldn't find someone that I would want to hookup with that would want to hookup with me in a week. Maybe if I was paying but I don't have a lot of people in my life that are waiting to randomly bang.
I think id be glad to give my wife a hall pass. my reasoning is i hope she meets someone who excites her .teaches her its ok to have sex and participate. She is not sexually experienced and most sex with her is boring. She wont try anything so its getting to be a struggle to be interested.. Ive tried almost everything so if she wanted one id so go enjoy yourself.
Quote by Ls63563
We have an open marriage, no need for a hall pass or to crowd fun into a 1 week adventure. Everyone should be as lucky as I am!
I so wish I had that as an option. I’ve been married a long time, but it’s been sexless for years. I have an amazing girlfriend who loves sex. I wish I could convince my SO that we can still be partners, but I want my girlfriend in my life as long as she’s willing.