Or can great sex only come with intimacy?
Yeah, my girlfriend's boyfriend Jack. They're both my FWBs, but Jack and I have absolutely nothing in common other than being perfect bed partners. His younger brother is just as good in bed and we DO love each other.
Once. It was fun, but the fact that I wasn't into him definitely detracted from the experience.
Yes. In my case the "sluttiness" of bedding the wrong guy was a huge rush beyond the sex.
My wife has a friend in this category
Yee. I visit him about twice a year for mutual satisfaction,plus a couple of other guys.
I have not experienced that personally. I do put a lot into the intimacy factor, so that might have something (or everything) to do with it. There are so many factors! I think how I am feeling makes a big difference. And, what might be am amazing fuck one day might not be so amazing at a different time, even if it is the same experience. I guess I am trying to say that where the mind is (thought) and where the body is (hornyness) have a huge factor on whether it is a "blown away" experience or not. I would be interested in hearing what others would say on this.