Ok. I have been with my lover/partner/girlfriend, whatever you wanna call her for over 2 years. I love her so very much. For some reason, i cannot bring her to an orgasm.
It makes me feel bad, and selfish. She still enjoys having sex, but she can only orgasm if she pleasures herself...
Any tips? Would be greatly appreciated...
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Alpha Blonde
Ask to watch her masturbate to orgasm.... then take note of what she is doing (stimulation levels/tempo etc)
You may also want to incorporate a small hand-held toy that you can use on her during sex. This works well in the doggy position. Or you can try something like the we-vibe for couples.
You may also want to incorporate a small hand-held toy that you can use on her during sex. This works well in the doggy position. Or you can try something like the we-vibe for couples.
Constant Gardener
How old is she? How many previous lovers has she had/enjoyed/endured?
Perhaps she requires a change of scenery. Just say'n...you might not be able to get every girl off, who you encounter. Whereas you might be the cat's meow of French dressing, she might prefer Roquefort, but if she's never had it...she'll never know.
Cut her loose, goose. You too need to experience the mutual climax. You'll be doing both of yourselves a favor!
Perhaps she requires a change of scenery. Just say'n...you might not be able to get every girl off, who you encounter. Whereas you might be the cat's meow of French dressing, she might prefer Roquefort, but if she's never had it...she'll never know.
Cut her loose, goose. You too need to experience the mutual climax. You'll be doing both of yourselves a favor!
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Many young women don't experience orgasm for the first few years. I believe this is because men do not take their time opening gently the young woman.
There is a lot of info on the web to help you learn as much as you can about the mechanics of pleasuring a woman and it is worth your time to learn from the research.
My best advise is to go easy with her and yourself and touch/rub/taste and explore her whole body. This is a turns-on and can make her feel known and appreciated and that the time spent with her is for more than just sex. Don't expect orgasm as a conclusion to coupling but instead take the time to make her feel safe with you and feel that you will be there regardless of orgasm. The mind and heart are very big parts of a young and old woman's orgasm.
Be assertive unselfishly and guide her as the male which is a natural turn-on for an inexperienced woman.
Let her be modest if she needs to be. Time will help you both. : )
There is a lot of info on the web to help you learn as much as you can about the mechanics of pleasuring a woman and it is worth your time to learn from the research.
My best advise is to go easy with her and yourself and touch/rub/taste and explore her whole body. This is a turns-on and can make her feel known and appreciated and that the time spent with her is for more than just sex. Don't expect orgasm as a conclusion to coupling but instead take the time to make her feel safe with you and feel that you will be there regardless of orgasm. The mind and heart are very big parts of a young and old woman's orgasm.
Be assertive unselfishly and guide her as the male which is a natural turn-on for an inexperienced woman.
Let her be modest if she needs to be. Time will help you both. : )
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How old is she? How many previous lovers has she had/enjoyed/endured?
Perhaps she requires a change of scenery. Just say'n...you might not be able to get every girl off, who you encounter. Whereas you might be the cat's meow of French dressing, she might prefer Roquefort, but if she's never had it...she'll never know.
Cut her loose, goose. You too need to experience the mutual climax. You'll be doing both of yourselves a favor!
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