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Hey Girls Just A quick question about first times

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I am a virgin, and in college lol i know its rare but i was just wondering if you would consider letting a virgin lose their virginity with you, and how that virgin should approach you? I know for a fact that being a virgin and approaching women for the first time is a nerve wracking experience.
Virgins over the age of 20 are way more common than you think, so it's not that rare. You are not the only one.

"letting a virgin lose their virginity" isn't really how it works. It's about connecting with someone, virginity aside.

Good Luck!
The key is just being confident and knowing what you can. Obviously you don't have the benefit of practical experience but do a little bit of research - find out what works for women in general and what works for the specific woman you end up with.

I've only had sex with two virgins personally, the first was crap because he had no idea of what worked in general, let alone what *I* liked. The second was much better because he knew me better and had taken the time to find out what I liked - most girls will have no issues with discussing this with you. Admittedly for the second I was also a little older and thus more confident which meant that I felt more able to instruct and direct necessary which helped.

All the best smile
Thanks girls, great advice!
I recommend finding an older woman to lose your virginity to.
im 19 and slept with 4 virgins i am a very understanding caring person and for 4 virgins to of obviously got to know me etc actualy makes me feeel good cus i know there shy, just talk on fbook or over text first and see where it goes
Everything happens for a reason. Live for the moment and have no regrets.
why an older lady shawna? and thanks anonymous that real good advice ill try that next time smile
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why an older lady shawna?


we know secret sex stuff and jedi mind tricks is why...
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why an older lady shawna?


we know secret sex stuff and jedi mind tricks is why...


She knows what she is talking about man, she has me vaccuuming her "virtual carpet" constantly....It's insane!
And you told me it was all about sex to start with, now look at this!!
The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

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why an older lady shawna?


we know secret sex stuff and jedi mind tricks is why...


She knows what she is talking about man, she has me vaccuuming her "virtual carpet" constantly....It's insane!


lmao you missed a spot silly
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why an older lady shawna?


we know secret sex stuff and jedi mind tricks is why...


knowing secret sex stuff is enough to make it perfect???? perfection is different... I think it is just like eating a cake picture. Even if it is cake picture, it can't give the taste of real cake silly
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I am a virgin, and in college lol i know its rare but i was just wondering if you would consider letting a virgin lose their virginity with you, and how that virgin should approach you? I know for a fact that being a virgin and approaching women for the first time is a nerve wracking experience.


if you can touch each other's heart as you make love, it will be perfect. If you touch only her body, it can be fun, but nothing more
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why an older lady shawna?


we know secret sex stuff and jedi mind tricks is why...


knowing secret sex stuff is enough to make it perfect???? perfection is different... I think it is just like eating a cake picture. Even if it is cake picture, it can't give the taste of real cake silly


Well, I can safely say that this is the only time I've ever heard anything likened to 'eating a cake picture'

Is this some new phrase trend I haven't heard about?
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why an older lady shawna?


we know secret sex stuff and jedi mind tricks is why...


knowing secret sex stuff is enough to make it perfect???? perfection is different... I think it is just like eating a cake picture. Even if it is cake picture, it can't give the taste of real cake silly


Well, I can safely say that this is the only time I've ever heard anything likened to 'eating a cake picture'

Is this some new phrase trend I haven't heard about?


because it is between LMB and me ;)
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why an older lady shawna?


we know secret sex stuff and jedi mind tricks is why...


knowing secret sex stuff is enough to make it perfect???? perfection is different... I think it is just like eating a cake picture. Even if it is cake picture, it can't give the taste of real cake silly


you know the answer king :p
hey Virgil! Lots of fun advice for you here! As Yahtzee says, virginity over the age of 20 is MUCH more common than most people admit. Most of your mates are possibly fibbing about the amount of experience they have had!! Its nothing to be embarrassed about, nor is it a race or a competition. It will happen for you when the time is right. Enjoy! smile
When the time is right it will happen or then maybe not at all.. take your time and becomfortale, it will happen
Ok thanks for the advice, but i kinda get with a girl and we kiss, but i dont really know how to show her that i want to give her my virginity?
I may be odd, but I never wanted the personal responsibility that comes with taking someone's virginity. I wanted a guy to have the ability to forget me. If I ever took a man's viriginity I would be placed in his memories forever. I would have a role in shaping him as a lover. I was never worried about it being short or lousy sex, heck, I've gotten that with experienced men. So every time virginity was offered to me, I passed on it. Most of the men I turned down, went on to lose it to someone they later married.
I was 12 my dad let me watch blacky do my cow I had rise and my pet was hump by blacky. Our hired hand did me in the ass and gave my dad a bj and my mom that nite eat me and my dad took my cherry