First of all this is for the gals only no guys or guys pretending to be gals. I am relatively new to the Hotwife scene. When I see testimonies of open marriage and swinging they are all wonderful hot experiences with no consequences. My question is, am I the only one that struggles with feelings of regret, anxiety, and second guessing?
It seems every encounter (there have not been many) that we experience, I go through a remorseful period in the aftermath. I'm not saying it's all negative. If it were I'd stop immediately. We have had some incredible unforgettable experiences. I just wonder if this is normal.
You've shared all your experiences with me, and honestly Carol, I think you've just had a string of bad luck starting out. I've had the occasional bad experience, but it's sometimes unavoidable where sport-sex is involved. Hopefully, you're getting yours over with at the beginning, and it will go smoother for you from here on. I've had guys get obsessed with me too, and you just have to be a bit tough with them when they start stalking/harrassing you. The difference between you and me is that I've been doing this for over 10 years, and have an established group of FWB's. You're still in the trial and error phase. But from what you've told me, you definitely enjoy the lifestyle. If Chuck is too, stick with it and things will smooth out for you.
