it depends on how much i don't like it. if i REALLY hate it, i say something right than and there. if it's just something i'm not as much into, i might wait until afterwards, and simply say, ok, that didn't really work for me.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
I suspect I am sexually not secure enough to really confront someone so I tend to keep it to myself then get cross later
Gosh Sisters if you are going to have sex with this person. You better be able to tell him/her what you want and what you find unacceptable.
If this is too far across the line for you then may I suggest that you need to keep looking.
I politely say that I don't like it.....xo
i say straight up as soon as it happens, hey cut that out! i don't believe in holding back how i feel especially when it comes to the bedroom, that to me is a sacred place where were sharing an extremely personal moment so it's important to always be honest. i mean how would you feel if you just had this amazing experience with the man/woman you love and they didn't feel the same way? personally i'd be crushed, and as long as your always open with them about things then you should never have to experience that.
I've finally learned to speak up (in a good-humored way). I'm so interminably nice, that I went for years holding my tongue about anything that I didn't like, but nowadays I have more partners, and every one of them is different in bed, so they all have to learn what they can and can't do with me. Sex is too important not to enjoy it thoroughly!
