Ok so I have a fuck buddy and we have an issue with when we fuck. She said I'm too big when I am not particularly big (7 inch by 2 inch) she limits me to two positions (missionary and her on top). How do I either ease her into having sex that is fun (you know not being told "slow down, easier" when im not even moving) or help her i dont know like having sex more?
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The Linebacker
She obviously does have discomfort with your size. 7" is longer than average which is actually less than 6" (2"? Is that 2" wide.) That may be a bit thick for her.
Other positions are obviously too painful for her. Every person is built different, skeletal structure, cervix, etc.
The more you have sex with someone you learn what they like or dislike. You want it to be as pleasurable as possible for her so listen to her and accommodate her. Also, make sure that you are good and lubed up before trying to push into her. And might I stress lots of foreplay! Make sure she is very wet, aroused and ready before even attempting to enter her. Lots of fun foreplay that gets her going!
Other positions are obviously too painful for her. Every person is built different, skeletal structure, cervix, etc.
The more you have sex with someone you learn what they like or dislike. You want it to be as pleasurable as possible for her so listen to her and accommodate her. Also, make sure that you are good and lubed up before trying to push into her. And might I stress lots of foreplay! Make sure she is very wet, aroused and ready before even attempting to enter her. Lots of fun foreplay that gets her going!
Active Ink Slinger
Jack, she likely has a tilted cervix. I do and I have the same damned problem. There isn't much you can do, except perhaps, consider having her apply a topical anesthetic to her cervix with a qtip (it's tricky to not get it in other places, but is surprisingly effective).
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Alpha Blonde
Quote by JackMang
yeah 2 inch is wide, I mean I am not new to sex I understand the mechanics of it and everything, how do I breach the topic of "I am not even positive that you enjoy this"
I think the real issue in this situation is: do you enjoy this.
The whole point of a fuckbuddy is someone that you enjoy having great sex with since that's the whole focus of the 'relationship' with them.
I don't think you need to be overly concerned here about how to finesse the situation. Just ask her and find out what's going on. If there's something that can be changed (ie. more lube, more foreplay, different positions etc) then great, but if not - I'd just chalk it up to not being sexually compatible and move on. If it's just a sexual relationship, who cares, right? Unless both people are having fun and enjoying the sex, then it's simply not worth it, in my opinion.
Active Ink Slinger
^^ Well rationalized & expressed ^^
Active Ink Slinger
Just Ask Her! I am assuming you arent the first guy she has been with. Tell her that she doesnt seem to be enjoying the sex all that much and what can you do to make it more pleasurable for her. Its all about communication. If she isnt open to talking about it and if you are not enjoying it either, then maybe it is time to move on. Not eveyone is sexually compatible.
Constant Gardener
Quote by Dancing_Doll
The whole point of a fuckbuddy is someone that you enjoy having great sex with since that's the whole focus of the 'relationship' with them.
Bingo!
Cultivate the buddy aspect of this relationship and move on to a better FWB fit. I have a lot of female friends, and at present I don't have sex with any of them. I have other porpoises for them!
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