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How long can you (reasonably) delay cumming? Advice on plot device

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A standard plot device in dom-sub play is having the dom deny the sub permission to cum.

I enjoy the device, but in speaking with a (woman) friend of mine, she says that after a couple of hours, she just goes flat. She gets exhausted, and the whole scene collapses.

I also realize that different women have different appetites and capacities. I'd be very interested in hearing whether this is generally true, or it's different for different women. I suspect the latter, but thought I would ask rather than just guess.

Help?

Thanks,
James

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Let me reframe the question: What is the LONGEST PERIOD OF TIME you have been wet, but have delayed cumming? Hours? Days? Weeks?

I've always wanted to see if I could keep my partner simmering – wet, but not allowed to cum – for an entire day, but the opportunity hasn't presented itself.

Perhaps I need to try harder.

Any insights gratefully received.

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i've gone long periods of time in the past (talking weeks here) without being allowed an orgasm. that said, i'm not constantly aroused during it. that way lies madness. same with a day. an entire day aroused to the point of being on the brink is probably not going to work. it's all about peaks and valleys. bring up the simmer right to the edge and then brink it down again.

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i've gone long periods of time in the past (talking weeks here) without being allowed an orgasm. that said, i'm not constantly aroused during it. that way lies madness. same with a day. an entire day aroused to the point of being on the brink is probably not going to work. it's all about peaks and valleys. bring up the simmer right to the edge and then brink it down again.


So I've thought. But if someone did that to you, would it be possible to sustain it for an entire day, even with breaks? Say, close to the brink, then nothing for half an hour, or an hour, then repeat?

I'm not quite sure what would happen to a man. Maybe I'll have to try, but I still would appreciate the woman's perspective.

Later addition: What am I saying? Of course I know what happens to a man: blue balls and singificant discomfort.

Sounds like the basis of a story…

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Latest competition story: Fingered Painting

I cum very easily and very quickly, so I'm almost incapable of holding it at bay. I don't see the point really. I can cum over and over once I start so I want as many orgasms as possible in a single session. My partners want to see me climax often too.