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Matriarch
You're all slappers!!! (I've voted already...pot / kettle anyone? 
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Quote by chefkathleen
Need more choices. LOL! Can anyone say one night stand? Or being friends with someone for a month or a year and then having sex?
Exactly! I am with you Chef.LsMILr5kF2bAzfZW Where is the immediately choice?
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Generally, a week. 
Alpha Blonde
With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
Quote by Dancing_Doll
With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
Dancing what about that really hot guy/girl that you met at the club last night. Dancing I know you know the one, the chemistry is there, your wet after the first dance and your mind goes into a spin when he/she touches you. I have to believe your are headed for a bed some place or some place for mind damaging sex. Or does that not count because it was really not a date?
Alpha Blonde
Quote by WHR43Quote by Dancing_Doll
With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
Dancing what about that really hot guy/girl that you met at the club last night. Dancing I know you know the one, the chemistry is there, your wet after the first dance and your mind goes into a spin when he/she touches you. I have to believe your are headed for a bed some place or some place for mind damaging sex. Or does that not count because it was really not a date?
Yeah, that scenario doesn't count because it's not a date... it's just a random hook up (and there certainly isn't anything wrong with those either!). I've gone on to date some people that started as one night stands. But generally speaking, if I think he has relationship potential I prefer to make him work for it a little...
Artistic Tart
Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by WHR43Quote by Dancing_Doll
With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
Dancing what about that really hot guy/girl that you met at the club last night. Dancing I know you know the one, the chemistry is there, your wet after the first dance and your mind goes into a spin when he/she touches you. I have to believe your are headed for a bed some place or some place for mind damaging sex. Or does that not count because it was really not a date?
Yeah, that scenario doesn't count because it's not a date... it's just a random hook up (and there certainly isn't anything wrong with those either!). I've gone on to date some people that started as one night stands. But generally speaking, if I think he has relationship potential I prefer to make him work for it a little...
So if you are attracted to a guy, I assume that means sexually too- but if you see something special about him you push those urges aside? I don't claim to really know what I'm talking about, I don't have a track record w/ boyfriends really. I've had just a few and none ended well, but it seems to me that the more you thought about yourself being with a guy, the more attracted to him you would be, which would land you in the sack with him sooner. How do you separate a guy who is relationship material from a guy who is just a one time thing, if you are attracted to both? I've met lots of guys who I thought, "now here is a guy who would treat me right, etc." but usually I'm just not as attracted to those guys.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by LadyXQuote by Dancing_DollQuote by WHR43Quote by Dancing_Doll
With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
Dancing what about that really hot guy/girl that you met at the club last night. Dancing I know you know the one, the chemistry is there, your wet after the first dance and your mind goes into a spin when he/she touches you. I have to believe your are headed for a bed some place or some place for mind damaging sex. Or does that not count because it was really not a date?
Yeah, that scenario doesn't count because it's not a date... it's just a random hook up (and there certainly isn't anything wrong with those either!). I've gone on to date some people that started as one night stands. But generally speaking, if I think he has relationship potential I prefer to make him work for it a little...
So if you are attracted to a guy, I assume that means sexually too- but if you see something special about him you push those urges aside? I don't claim to really know what I'm talking about, I don't have a track record w/ boyfriends really. I've had just a few and none ended well, but it seems to me that the more you thought about yourself being with a guy, the more attracted to him you would be, which would land you in the sack with him sooner. How do you separate a guy who is relationship material from a guy who is just a one time thing, if you are attracted to both? I've met lots of guys who I thought, "now here is a guy who would treat me right, etc." but usually I'm just not as attracted to those guys.
Yeah it's a fine line I guess... but the one niters are usually guys that I meet at a bar or club where neither of us are particularly sober but there is an instant lightning attraction (fuelled by alcohol and a desire to fuck). Its hard to say exactly how I know they would never be relationship material but its just a vibe I get. Maybe they're hot but the personality isn't there, or they're the wrong age or have the wrong kind of job or they're just dumb as a post. And if I'm feeling it, then I go for it, but I know it's for fun only, not for the long term and it's just a physical and circumstantial thing (ie drunk + horny). Sometimes he surprises me or we connect later or the sex is incredible and we'll see each other again... either as fuck buddies or as dating.
The 3-date rule usually works if I've met a guy outside of a club environment and I'm assessing him on a whole different set of criteria that goes beyond instant attraction and I like what I see. Maybe I'm more concerned about respecting what's happening between us and him respecting me to fuck him the first time I see him. In my experience the bad boys like to 'work for it' too... who doesn't like a challenge? And we all know guys like the chase. The second date we get to know each other. The third date is the over-nighter and then it rolls from there. The bit of restraint works to heighten the anticipation, the sex is usually hotter, and I like to be chased a little too. It also means we'll probably be having breakfast together the next morning rather than me waking up with a splitting headache, grabbing my last night's clothes, and making a quick excuse that I need to get to a spin class at the gym to get out of there as fast as I can.
Constant Gardener
Quote by VanGoghQuote by roccotool
Gals, how much time passes between meeting a guy and sleeping with him?
well ...I don't sleep with every person I meet!
seriously ... it is all in the chemistry and/or if you are anticipating a relationship. some are just good for the once-a-fuck situation.
Ah yes...the infamous FuckNChuck
I printed and sold a few of those T-shirts in my life.
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