How to approach you when you're just running errands?

22 May 2010

OK, ladies... Imagine for a moment that you're in a public place like a grocery store, a shopping mall, a farmer's market, a laundromat, etc. Someplace you'd be sober, and minding your own business. You might be dressed nicely, but not to kill. You're there alone or with some girlfriends, but don't have a boyfriend with you. If you're a single Mom, maybe you have the kids with you, maybe you don't.

I'm there minding my own business, too. At least, until I see you. I didn't go there looking to meet girls, but having seen you I don't want to miss what could be my only chance to meet you, and I want to make the right impression. Which is: I'm a nice guy, but don't think I'm not also a little naughty when the time is right. I might not mind being friends, but I'd be more of a friend "with benefits" than in the "friend zone". I want you to be thinking of me as a potential date/lover by the time I'm through. I *DON'T* want you thinking of me as just another guy who hit on you, or a new "friend" you made - at least, not until we gave "more than friends" the 'ol college try!

Also, If we go based on looks alone, you're probably out of my league. I'm not bad looking, but you're a knock out - good looking enough, at least, to make a guy who's just running some errands stop and take notice. But I've got a lot going for me if we can get past my basic guy next door looks, and I'm not afraid to approach you. And I'm smart enough to know that guys probably stare at you all day long, or make crude comments, or try in some miserably inept way to hit on you, and likewise some smarmy player types are hitting on you too, and that you're probably fairly annoyed with it all much of the time - so I'm going to take a different, or at least more original, or bolder approach. Somehow I'm going to level that playing field...

So how should I do it? What could I say or do that would rock your world just a little? My goal is simple: to either walk away with your phone number, and you hoping I'll call soon, or to at least make your day, and leave you feeling good about yourself. A home run would be we're leaving there together for coffee, and who knows what... but in your mind anything is still possible as we walk out the door. A base hit would be me leaving you feeling flattered and with a positive enough impression of me that, should we ever run into each other again, you'd turn the tables and approach me. Striking out would be leaving you wishing guys like me would just leave you alone.

So, suggestions? What do you wish guys would do in these situations, that most either don't think of, or haven't got the guts to do?

I'm a wild and Krrraaazzzy Guy!

22 May 2010

Oh Damn, I had that situation this morning. Set the scene, very hot morning, had shower washed and let my curl hair dry naturally, had a small amount of shimmery make-up on. I had just walked into Tesco's(Supermarket)
I had a red England boob tube top on; when I heard this guy talking about me to his work mate, totally checking me out as was I - tight trousers yum.
Well I walked out after I caught his eye and visa versa - but...

Neither of us did anything, I'm kicking myself now as he was rellly hot. Doh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

22 May 2010

Quote by HoneyBee000
Oh Damn, I had that situation this morning. Set the scene, very hot morning, had shower washed and let my curl hair dry naturally, had a small amount of shimmery make-up on. I had just walked into Tesco's(Supermarket)
I had a red England boob tube top on; when I heard this guy talking about me to his work mate, totally checking me out as was I - tight trousers yum.
Well I walked out after I caught his eye and visa versa - but...

Neither of us did anything, I'm kicking myself now as he was rellly hot. Doh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HoneyBee!why didn't you give him a smile? He was intimidated by your beauty and he was definitely waiting for your singh so he can approach you.

22 May 2010

Definately approach her! Most women wouldnt mind, and would probably appreciate it more when she's not looking her best than when she's dressed up a bit and has some sleaze grabbing her ass.

I usually try and give signals whenever i see an attractive guy wherever i am

22 May 2010

What works best with me is flirty, sparkling eyes, and just a very simple "hello... how are you doing today"...

If there is a spark, then she will respond.

I'm generally not a big fan of typical 'pick up lines'. They are mostly kinda cheesey to me, and if they aren't delivered right, they do more harm than good in terms of getting my interest.

For me, it's all in the eyes... a nice polite greeting...and maybe then some general conversation based on whatever you both happen to be doing. Or you can ask her a question (about groceries, food item, the weather, or whatever). The key is just to start a conversation and do some light flirting (more so with eyes/body language, not verbal).

If she's interested, it will probably be pretty clear because she'll be mirroring those signals back to you.

29 May 2010

For me is simple approach for better results..

I don't like flirty eyes or any kind of flirtation on first connection. Simple hello my name is KrrraaazzzyGuy without touching or shaking hands would be great.
I also dislike when a guys are using lines on me, women usually know when you are doing it.. I love when he is making fun of himself in one subtle way. If he makes me smile he will get my number.. and I usually don't go for a coffee right away I prefere when we meet some other time after he calls..

30 May 2010

Ask her for help with a big friendly smile. How do you roast a chicken? , Get stain out of a new shirt ? Where is the best cleaner in town? None of us can resist a man who needs our help.?

I have a friend who Trains Dogs for the Blind and he claims when his charges are in the puppy stage, he does not have to do anything, but be where woman are and they will do the rest. Seems to work I have never seen him with the same woman twice. Unless you are looking for an LTR