ok girls...
this one is kinda personal for me...
41 days ago(yes i counted em)...i broke up with my girlfriend. Its all good...just didnt work out. we are still friends though..
this is not about taht tho...
about a week ago i got together with my new gf...named tiffany. I want to make a "move" on her. but dont konw where to start.
(she is not real open about her sexuality)
but she dresses quite skimpy.
any ideas?
Tech Moddess AKA Danger Kat ;)
You want to make a move after a week? Slow down sweetie. Listen to chef....she gave some very good advice. When you two know each other well and you are comfortable with each other, the "move" will seem quite natural.
hazzah, well put tech! A light kiss after a week seems ok but, I think I'd go a lot slower on anything else.
i didnt mean a sexual move lol...
too soon...
and im not 21...
im 18, and she is 17...
i'm not entirely sure how the first part of that was relevant lol
yeah go slow bro. take a chill pill.
Insomniac, that's creepy.
Now, in response to the actual question: slower is better in a situation like this. Communication is important. Just be open and talk to her about what you're feeling. Be to the point, but don't be impolite, either. It's not supposed to be difficult, and when it is, there's a good chance it's only because you're making it so. You said not a sexual move, but we don't know what you mean, since she's already your girlfriend. You just need to be who you are, because that's probably who she wants.