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If you thought or knew your husband would be ok with you having an affair..

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who you tell him? I think most men would be ok with it but would you still tell him or is it none of his business?
I don't think anyone should assume their partner would be "okay" with them having an affair. If you KNEW .... as in you both communicated and mutually decided to be with other people, then I don't see why you wouldn't be open and honest if he/she wanted to know.
I could just be naïve but I disagree with your statement that most men would be okay with their partners having an affair.
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who you tell him? I think most men would be ok with it but would you still tell him or is it none of his business?


I've learned that even if someone says they're okay, the following reality of events might change that. They might not be okay with it after all.
An open relationship should be discussed long before the relationship started. What is communication if two do not!
I agree with lilbee, I don't think most men would be good with it. I know my husband wouldn't want me to have an affair. However we have both in the past had sex with others. There is a difference between sex and affair.

I think that whether the husband wants it or not, he needs to know if an affair has happened. And I, for one, would want to know if my husband slept with, or had an affair with someone else.
I'm not married but in a very serious and committed relationship with my boyfriend and I know he would not be okay with that. To be honest I would not have an affair because I find it immoral. I just love my boyfriend/my sweet sexy soldier way too much heart.