This is sparking off my previous topic.
If you are out at a bar/club what types of things do you do when trying to show a guy that you have an interest in him or get him to notice you. These are the things I've noticed, so correct me if I'm wrong.
1) Make eye contact and then look away.
2) flip your hair
3) Put yourself in proximity to him (usually about 5-10 feet away)
4) smile, even if there's nothing to smile at
If these are right/wrong let me know. Or if there are others. Remember, guys are dumb and the things that you may think of as obvious are probably not so to them.
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Alpha Blonde
Yes, you are right on all of them.
Depending on how bold I'm feeling, once I've attracted his attention, I may not look away at all until he's walking over.
A well-timed mischievous smile goes a long way.
Depending on how bold I'm feeling, once I've attracted his attention, I may not look away at all until he's walking over.
A well-timed mischievous smile goes a long way.
Active Ink Slinger
You my friend are not dumb. I use every one of these tactics. A subtle wink followed by a big smile is a real hooker. Another one is pretending to ignore him after a smile or play
"hard-to-get".
"hard-to-get".
Active Ink Slinger
...And when she gives those signals and tells you 'Not interested' when you respond?
Constant Gardener
Quote by ReallyHard
...And when she gives those signals and tells you 'Not interested' when you respond?
Then, Sir...you are playing in a totally different sandbox, inhabited by a nutcase. Generally it is best to realize it instantly for what it is...drift away and count yourself fortunate.
That woman is damaged goods. She just did you a major favor.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Quote by ReallyHard
...And when she gives those signals and tells you 'Not interested' when you respond?
Or else they are not actually giving them to you...
Seriously...guys are dense and are not always perceptive to what is being conveyed. It may also be something that you are portraying in your approach. Women can sense insecurity a mile away.
Constant Gardener
Quote by DamonX
Seriously...Some guys are dense and are not always perceptive to what is being conveyed.
Fixed it for ya.
You speak a lot, in generalities, Damon. Almost always, as a matter of fact.
As if what you're saying is blanket-statement defacto - the only answer.
Not very perceptive, imho.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Quote by WellMadeMaleQuote by DamonX
Seriously...Some guys are dense and are not always perceptive to what is being conveyed.
Fixed it for ya.
You speak a lot, in generalities, Damon. Almost always, as a matter of fact.
As if what you're saying is blanket-statement defacto - the only answer.
Not very perceptive, imho.
Granted. I never meant it to include 100% of men. I will take notice of that in the future.
Now I feel like I should go back and insert the word "most" into most of my posts.
Let me rephrase to remove any ambiguity:
Men are often less adept at picking up on subtle social cues than women.
I thought it would be obvious that when I use the term "men" it is not referring to every one of the 3 billion of us, but I will make sure to make things perfectly clear in the future.