For guys orgasming is when the pelvic floor muscle contractions happen that send waves of pleasure through their body. Cumming is when the guy ejaculates semen. I know a lot of people dont think of them as 2 separate events because they can happen one after the other or so close together but they can also happen without the other for example you can orgasm without ejaculating or ejaculate without an orgasm etc.
The question:
Is orgasming, cumming, climaxing separate things or different things for a woman in the same way?
Obviously I understand some squirt/female ejaculate, some gush, some just get really wet, some its all just an internal thing but I'm asking are there multiple stages that your aware of for example if a guys just had an orgasm without ejaculating he would automatically know he needs to keep going to get to the next stage cumming which would either mean more orgasms with cumming(ejaculating) or just straight to cumming(ejaculating) depending on how excited he is.
The other part of the question:
A guy only fully gets off when hes cum/ejaculated so that means orgasms feel really good but they dont take care of the urge or itch its more like you feel good but you still know you need to get somewhere which means you still feel like you have to cum/ejaculate. That kind of means even if a guy held back and had 3-4 orgasms without ejaculating he would just feel really good but he would still feel like he needs to cum/ejaculate for things to end if he didn't ejaculate he would still be as frustrated as when he started maybe even more with all the build up to it.
Do women have anything similar to that? Meaning you've orgasmed once or multiple times but you have something equivalent
to a guy cumming/ejaculating that you need to reach to for the urge to go away?
Can't speak for other women in different cultures, or other countries and what the words mean to them.
But if I'm climaxing, I'm getting close. Which is another word women use for climaxing.
Climaxing = Getting close=Almost orgasm.
If I climaxed then I orgasmed, but girls don't usually say the word climaxed.
If I have an orgasm, then I had just that, which always wonderful,
But I can have small orgasms all day, and my pussy stay wet all the time.
If I'm cumming, I'm squirting like a horny stripper, which is an orgasm on a sugar rush,
causing me to be unable to do anything but lay there and shake, squirting girlcum all over us.
byebye...smiles
When I am writing erotica or having sex, all three words orgasming, climaxing, cumming, mean the same thing. Orgasming sounds too clumsy to use. I'd say having an orgasm. But in erotica cumming or climaxing is much sexier.
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Did y'all know in the state of Georgia we have these two towns (yep, they're actual official names):
• Climax, Georgia
• Cumming, Georgia
I have yet to climax or cum in either one of them.
Cool Thanks to everyone that responded. I would like to hear your thoughts on the 2nd part of the question:
For me as a guy cumming is when I ejaculate and orgasms are just the contractions that feel good so I class them as 2 very different things. I only fully get off by cumming ejaculating so that means orgasms alone just feel extremely good and pleasurable but they dont really do anything in terms of taking care of the sexual urges / itch.
That means I could hold out and have 3,4 orgasms without ejaculating by having longer sessions or edging etc but after them Im either just as frustrated as when I started or even more frustrated because the orgasms just feel extremely good they dont release any of that sexual build up. The cumming / ejaculating part is where the biggest release happens its like the longer you have sex or the more orgasms you have along the way the bigger the release at the end gets but the things in the middle dont really matter so much until you reach the end at least thats how it feels for me.
Do things work for women in the same way? Like do the orgasms just feel good or do they take away your sexual urges and frustration? I was wondering do women get a release from orgasms or is it exactly the same for women?
The only difference iv noticed is women can seem to stop having sex at any moment without feeling frustrated? Maybe they do get frustrated but dont talk about it I dont know? do you get frustrated? With me I know I would be frustrated even if a woman gave me 10 orgasms but walked away without making me cum/ejaculate. Or are women just better at controlling their feelings and urges?
how do you announce it to your partner?
this is the right word!
I thought they were all the same , just different words Anglo / American language barrier . but on roughly the same note . different types of orgasm when your having sex , masturbation or actually making love, and "gush " squirt " ??? must be an american thing lol
don't analyse it so much for god sake .. plus i got bored reading your reply .. just masturbate and enjoy it
I my experience - Orgasm,cumming, climaxing have the same meaning but can in fact, in my experience, be a bit different in the way my body reacts. My orgasms when I masturbate can be different to when I cum with my lovers both male and female. Like I can tell them "I am cumming." I would never tell them "I am having my orgasm now." The climax is just that - the apex or climax of my orgasm I enjoy irrespective of what I call it at the time. After my climax its all down hill.
I dont squirt or gush when I orgasm but I can get wet at times and really wet at others. The intensity of the build -up before my orgasm determines how much "juice" I make, irrespective of the method used to get me to cum.
I often do have multiple orgasms which are amazing. Generally these occur when I am having oral.
My guys will always tell me they are cumming - there is no other word for them.
