Is there a good way to show on your page that guys should never whisper or privy chat request...IF ?

22 Jan 2017

...IF ?...I like to whisper and privy chat to my friends, and even others new I might meet, but only after I talk with them a bit and get to know them, so I don't want to disable whispers, or privy chat requests completely. And if it was just maybe one or two every now and then it would be fine, but sometimes it might be 10 or more very quickly and I have to X them all out, and they just send them again, I have to stop talking to whoever, and tell everyone to stop please.
I just want to tell guys to not whisper to me unless I have friended them, and not send me privy chat request if I don't even know them.

It seems that most of the guys are just looking for boobs and kitty pics and don't even read your page anyway.

I've tried wording it so many different ways, putting it first at the top, bold, capital letters, hmmm, maybe write it how you wish and make it into a pic as the first one in your gallery so when they go looking for a boob and kitty shot they see that first? I don't know. Any good ideas thanks...smiles

22 Jan 2017

guys are gonna do what guys are gonna do. most of the ones who do that shit don't bother even reading your bio. just keep doing what i do. answer them back 'out loud' and embarrass them or ignore them. it's a pain, but they'll get the message eventually.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

22 Jan 2017

Agree with Sprite 100% but consider the ladies room at times... I walk in and say hello to a pretty full room and it's all whispers, blank page, my hello echoing..... Helllllooooooo????!!!!! Hehe, leave pretty sharpish. Just think you may miss out on someone who hasn't got the confidence to speak in an open room or a friend in the making that doesn't want to hump your leg.....

22 Jan 2017

Quote by Emily260
Agree with Sprite 100% but consider the ladies room at times... I walk in and say hello to a pretty full room and it's all whispers, blank page, my hello echoing..... Helllllooooooo????!!!!! Hehe, leave pretty sharpish. Just think you may miss out on someone who hasn't got the confidence to speak in an open room or a friend in the making that doesn't want to hump your leg.....

Anyone can always ask me first, openly, if they can whisper or send me a privy chat request. But especially with privy chat request, that hardly ever happens. They just keep sending them, if they are that bold about it, then they can say openly and just ask first then I think. I do whisper and privy chat.

And I hate that as well, how others treat people, and won't even say hello back to them. I always say hello back, even if they just said hello to the room, and not for just me...smiles

22 Jan 2017

I'm normally invisible then it's down to me to talk or send the chat request. As to pics the only thing displayed is my avitar of my stocking tops. It's up to you how you chose to portray yourself here but I know some of my friends have private albums? Maybe another option. I've seen your photos on walls when I'm browsing profiles so others must do too.
Hehe if they get too much send the desperadoes a cock pic hehe xx good luck

22 Jan 2017

Quote by Emily260
I'm normally invisible then it's down to me to talk or send the chat request. As to pics the only thing displayed is my avitar of my stocking tops. It's up to you how you chose to portray yourself here but I know some of my friends have private albums? Maybe another option. I've seen your photos on walls when I'm browsing profiles so others must do too.
Hehe if they get too much send the desperadoes a cock pic hehe xx good luck

I do the invisible too a lot, mainly because I hate to disappoint any of my GFs here. Sometimes when I logon I have maybe 10 to 20 bboxes. I don't mind that so much, I know they like me or need me for a little special help, but sometimes it's just too much, and I don't have the time always, so it makes me feel bad when they no I'm here and maybe they think I'm just ignoring them, especially when they need me that way, so I just stay invisible, read them and figure out who I should see first...smiles...I don't mind anyone seeing my pics though. I don't have any nude, well except my breasts on the last one, but no problems with any of that. Oh...I get what you said about sending them to cock pic...lol...except some of the guys would like that too...lol
I never have any problems with girls sending me privy chat reqs. or even whispering, and if I don't know them, they will always say sorry if they do whisper. But I don't mind if any girl whispers, or wants to privy chat. I like girls a little better than guys mostly...thanks...smiles

22 Jan 2017

All I can say is good luck. With a friend list as long as yours I'm sure you're exhausted! As to the guy thing? Go with what Sprite said, they'll get bored eventually or else just block them

22 Jan 2017

From a guy, just say it straight up as you like. i simply dont attempt contact with women who quite plainly say they have no interest in friend requests etc from men. most sensible blokes wont be offended.

lol...the more persistant the guy will get it once you tell him to fuck off if hes still having trouble getting it!.

good luck and fair play to you...shit im good with women or men hitting me up. not for everyone though!.