Well thats how the saying goes but I'd love to know whether I am unusual or in the minority among men. I find that I, like most men, love sex. But I find that I get more pleasure from pleasing a woman than simply 'getting my end away' to use a typical British turn of phrase. Massaging a woman's body, touching her, kissing her and making her orgasm is more satisfying to me than orgasming myself. Is that odd? Would love some honest feedback on this please.
....If you want to know what it common in men, you're probably better off actually asking...well, y'know, men.
I have been with several men like you. My husband is that way. But I agree with LittleBambi, you should ask the guys for their feedback. Although, I wonder why you are concerned about being "common" Sounds dreadfully boring to me.
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X
Thanks to LittleBambi and Poizenivy. I'll post on the 'Ask the guys' forum. I'm not concerned about it, I love it and would hate to be common and boring. Oh and thanks heartoftheweb. xx
