I’m genuinely curious how many females in relationships with their spouse want to be shared and have been shared. It seems to me a fantasy for a lot of the males of the relationship. Are most women on board with this or are most reserved about it?
I'm always being shared and my husband watches or joins in. All my girls love it when I organise a full weekend where we can let our hair down in the heated pool at the holiday house, or have the penthouse all to ourselves. We will let the boys join us some weekends, so they aren't left out
From the husband’s perspective, married 34 years now. When we first got together we both knew that we were both very active, and loved sex. It wasn’t long before we started swinging so we could check all our boxes on things we wanted to try sexually. We soon realized we really liked 3somes either with women or men. And we both found it very hot watching each other with different people. You miss a lot of the actual raw sexual energy while having sex, but get to see it all so clearly watching and helping. Personally we’ve never gotten tired of seeing each other in the throes of orgasm at another’s hand. So 34 years later we’re still doing it, only thing that’s changed is we’ve morphed into doing it while solo from each other when one of us is traveling. Once back together we tell each other all about the experience and have some hot sex with each other. I love my dirty good girl and she loves her dirty pervy boy. What people often forget is 99% of people aren’t there mates first, and if they split up they wouldn’t be there last. We didn’t care that they fucked people before, so why should we care if they do it now if we know about it or participate in it? If your worried about losing that person to someone else, then they weren’t yours to begin with. True love, respect and commitment trumps sex every time.