My girlfriend hates being told what to do or how to do it - for example, slower, faster etc...
What about you. Do you like being told?
If I'm playing the sub then I want to be told. . . If it's vanilla then I'd prefer to be asked.
Something "Oh yeah faster faster" in a sexy non demanding or pissed off tone is fine just don't get aggravated and start telling me what to do.
i dont have a problem with suggestions but i can't stand being told what to do.