Ladies of Lush,
Ok you can have one of two people to live with/be married to. With the first one the sex is great and you can have all you want. However when you aren't having sex, they dont pay any attention to you, they don't show any affection and they hardly even listen to you. You can't share your day with them because they don't understand or care. They would rather spend time at work or out with friends than be home with you.
The second devotes their entire lives around you you are the only thing they are interested in and they hate going to work because you aren't there. They listen to you want to be with you and give you all the attention you want. However they can't for some reason have regular sex with you.
Which would you pick - the sex with no love or the love with no sex?
the one with great sex, having already been in the other relationship before and stayed way too long..
It's fucking horrible.. sorry for the language, but it is.
regardless, period ending..
that is a hard question. i would choose love because i am adapt at getting myself off and if needs be i would get with a girlfriend or two (if he really loved me he would understand)
I would choose love without sex. I can take care of my own sexual needs. I need affection, companionship, and friendship. Ive had sex without it and I will always regret it. Most definitely love with or with out sex.
At this stage in my life, I really couldn't be with either version you presented.
The 'love but no sex' guy would maybe be an option if I was much older. And if I was already with a guy I was in love with but for some medical reason sex was off the table for a while (eg. injury, illness etc) then I wouldn't leave. I suppose there are also options for an open relationship there too.
If both guys were presented to me 'as is' though, I'd rather just be single and do my own thing.
I must sound like a cold heartless bitch...lol....
Shrugs...lol..
Love, everything shouldn't always be about sex sure it's fun and enjoyable but it shouldn't be based just on that and after a while sex just becomes boring and un enjoyable bc no feelings are involved so you'd be left feeling used in the end
neither, for all the reasons Doll mentioned.
I would never want amazing sex with no other connection. To have no other interest in me as a person is empty.
If the reasons were out of his control like medical than absolutely. Love trumps all. But the intimacy and closeness sex brings is very important it is an expression of love.
So I would pick love if there is a good reason for limited sex but if not then neither because I think physical intimacy goes along with being madly in love with someone.
I would never want amazing sex with no other connection. To have no other interest in me as a person is empty.
If the reasons were out of his control like medical than absolutely. Love trumps all. But the intimacy and closeness sex brings is very important it is an expression of love.
So I would pick love if there is a good reason for limited sex but if not then neither because I think physical intimacy goes along with being madly in love with someone.
I would never want amazing sex with no other connection. To have no other interest in me as a person is empty.
If the reasons were out of his control like medical than absolutely. Love trumps all. But the intimacy and closeness sex brings is very important it is an expression of love.
So I would pick love if there is a good reason for limited sex but if not then neither because I think physical intimacy goes along with being madly in love with someone.
I would never want amazing sex with no other connection. To have no other interest in me as a person is empty.
If the reasons were out of his control like medical than absolutely. Love trumps all. But the intimacy and closeness sex brings is very important it is an expression of love.
So I would pick love if there is a good reason for limited sex but if not then neither because I think physical intimacy goes along with being madly in love with someone.
I would never want amazing sex with no other connection. To have no other interest in me as a person is empty.
If the reasons were out of his control like medical than absolutely. Love trumps all. But the intimacy and closeness sex brings is very important it is an expression of love.
So I would pick love if there is a good reason for limited sex but if not then neither because I think physical intimacy goes along with being madly in love with someone.
Although sex is great for me it would have to be love. I need someone who is going to be there for me when I call, someone who can take care of me and most importantly someone I can talk. Besides we all have toys for reason or another.
You never know what might come your way in life. Sometimes you don't get to choose, but you stay because you love. There's more to life than sex, but it's difficult to live without it.
I pick love..... Most girls just want to feel like they are loved and important, I can get myself off if I want sex!!!
Can I marry the nice guy and cheat on him with the asshole?
Just kidding. I'd take love.
Just sex is never going to be enough. I'd take love (and a couple of quality toys).
Wow sorry about all that. My phone or lush is drunk
