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Lush might be a different story, but I feel like there are a lot of places on the internet where the number is more around 90% lol.
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Well thats why I posted in "Ask the Gals", I assume thier BS dectors are much more in tune then mine.
Interesting theory but then how would you separate those responses from the 40% of responses you're expecting from men pretending to women?
Lush is very female dominated, it has to be. While there are twice as many men here than women there are six times as many female site moderators than male ones. That means you're twelve times more likely to be a site mod if you're woman than if you're a man. Why do you think that is? (No, it's not because they're actually men)
For men, getting attention from women here isn't easy, getting interest is even harder. I'm sure it's far too much work for a lot guys here so they're left finding other ways of making easier. It's sad but true, some people are here simply to make a connection no matter how fake it might be. I would imagine (though it's just a hunch) that most of the fakes are here to talk to the types of women they are presenting themselves as: "Hi, I stumbled on Lush by accident, I'm 19 from CA 34-22-32DD girls hit me up. NO GUYS" or "My husband satisfies my needs, now i need to know a woman's touch"
As fakes these people will find pics of some bikini model or worse a gallery from one of those ex-gf websites. The thing is, you see accounts like this all the time - the beauty of it is that they add each other and shares their fake pictures amongst themselves and have their fake girl on girl cyber sex (though I'm sure it must get a bit embarrassing when they've both decided to pretend to be "LoveGisele"). Yes, I'm sure there are a few individuals who get off by cock teasing vulnerable men - probably in some fucked up way this gets the world back for the way women treat them in real life - but I really can't imagine that problem is endemic to Lush.
Fakes tend to have the hottest avs, the biggest picture galleries, and appear to make themselves the most available. Of course they will attract your attention but for every one of those there will be at least a dozen accounts that don't even register on your radar
There may actually be a number of fake male accounts on here set up by women. Imagine the peace they'd have entering a full chat room and not being instantly invited to half a dozen private chats from people they don't know. How much nicer their Lush experience would be without the need to appear on cam or voice to prove their sex. They might even feel like they have more to offer than a pair of tits.
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Overmyknee has sussed a few things out.ive seen avatarr pics the same 4 other girls.stupid!
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The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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I think there r lots pretending... kinda like how men like watching lesbian porn. You can tell most by how they word things or act. However, some can be good fakes and can really fool you. I have opened myself up to a few people on here only to realize later on that they have to be guys. Sooner or later they make a mistake.... it just stinks because you begin to question all of ur friends and can have trust issues. Is faking it and pretending to care about someone worth actually really hurting them more? No I don't think so.
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I think it depends on how you use the site. I don’t chat, participate in the chat rooms or cyber with anyone, male or female, I enjoy making comments on some forums, writing and reading stories, and I’m always off line so I don’t come into contact with many people.
So whether they are who they say they are or if they believe I am who I say I am makes no difference to me
So whether they are who they say they are or if they believe I am who I say I am makes no difference to me
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I have enough problems being a guy without complicating things.
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I have enough problems being a guy without complicating things.
Don says it all, life throws us way too many curves to add to it that. However that been said, I have had several "girls" friends who turned out certainly not to be who they pretended to be. As to whether they were guys, probably but no real way of knowing. When some super hot gal posts many explicit photos and is only available to women as another posted mentioned, it fishy! Even better when they bother to crop the pics they use! I found a few on Met-art who were here on Lush as well, lol!
Aw what the hell it's all good!
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I don't care who is pretending to be whom. If I have fun, which doesn't necessarily have to be sexy, I'm good with it. Why spend time caring about what is, most of the time, in the end, inconsequential? Fantasy is a big part of Lush and some just get off on pretending to be someone they are not, who am I to stop them having fun?
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Hitting this again since it seems to still be of interest.....
I think it comes down to expectations. And there is a wide range of expectations here. Personally I don't have a problem with any of them. But I know MINE, and personally, I am not interested in doing anything OTHER than casual chatting with any member who has a fake profile. It is one thing to not give a correct location, or to use a "stock" avatar, but when the entire profile is a complete lie (to include being the wrong sex), I am just not interested. If I want a TOTAL fantasy, I will read a story or look at some porn. But when I interact, I personally want some reality there. For me, THAT is what works for me.
I think it comes down to expectations. And there is a wide range of expectations here. Personally I don't have a problem with any of them. But I know MINE, and personally, I am not interested in doing anything OTHER than casual chatting with any member who has a fake profile. It is one thing to not give a correct location, or to use a "stock" avatar, but when the entire profile is a complete lie (to include being the wrong sex), I am just not interested. If I want a TOTAL fantasy, I will read a story or look at some porn. But when I interact, I personally want some reality there. For me, THAT is what works for me.
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I had a nut job on here once swear I was a man and post comments as such in a harassing way on my stories it was quite amusing then the powers that be made them disappear! 
I am for sure 100% girl my dick is fake and rubber lol
I am for sure 100% girl my dick is fake and rubber lolBunny12
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I don't know if this is of any interest any longer but it just makes me mad when a man pretends to be a woman. I know I have first hand experience and if you want to know the details message me will be happy to tell you who he is and name and how he has affected me in my personal life.
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Question for you then......how did you come to the conclusion that 40% of the "women" are actually men?
Just curious..
This. As I've noted on other threads, there are definitely men pretending to be women, more specifically bi/lesbian or hotwife women, on Lush, but I don't think the number approaches nearly 40%.
Men pretending to be women, for whatever reason, seem to believe that women talk with other women about sex. Pro tip: We do. However, sex talk usually revolves around real life relationships, and comes in wayyy down on the discussion list, somewhere after laundry detergent preferences (no, seriously...) and somewhere before whether to plant primroses or hellebores or both.
Interestingly, since men use a different syntax than women, no matter the woman's sexual orientation, and no matter the native language of the woman, it doesn't usually even take me looking at a profile or doing a reverse Google Image search on a supposed woman about whom I have suspicions to confirm those suspicions. Just a few minutes of conversation, and I'll know.
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This. As I've noted on other threads, there are definitely men pretending to be women, more specifically bi/lesbian or hotwife women, on Lush, but I don't think the number approaches nearly 40%.
Men pretending to be women, for whatever reason, seem to believe that women talk with other women about sex. Pro tip: We do. However, sex talk usually revolves around real life relationships, and comes in wayyy down on the discussion list, somewhere after laundry detergent preferences (no, seriously...) and somewhere before whether to plant primroses or hellebores or both.
Interestingly, since men use a different syntax than women, no matter the woman's sexual orientation, and no matter the native language of the woman, it doesn't usually even take me looking at a profile or doing a reverse Google Image search on a supposed woman about whom I have suspicions to confirm those suspicions. Just a few minutes of conversation, and I'll know.
This is more true than most realize. Guys can be profiled rather easily just by their language and syntax. I've been the senior mod on a girls-only site for nearly nine years, and we use several technical tricks to identify and screen out guys posing as girls before they can get on our site, but occasionally they slip through our defenses, and nearly always get caught by their conversations with our members.
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And I was just about to suggest to just have Bethany check them out. I tried to convince her that I was really a lesbian pretending to be a dirty old man, but she didn't buy it.
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I posted a couple of days ago about hating men pretending to be women I guess I should elaborate on the issue. It makes me angry because it happened in my personal life. My husband who is no longer a member was here pretending to be a woman. He said that no one would take men seriously and that no one would read his stories if he wrote them from a man's point of view. That is bull I have many male friends here on lush and I chat with them.
My husband hurt a lot of people I know some personally but I'm sure there are a lot out there I don't know. He was a very good writer one of the best and his stories were very well liked by all since his deletion his stories have also been deleted. It is very unfortunate that my husband only had his best interests at heart he only cared about himself and didn't care who he hurt not me or anyone else male or female from what I gather. He had a big following he was a god so to speak here but he wasn't a true friend he lied to one and all and hurt everyone or at least most in his path both male and female.
He hurt me the most for I am finding out each day what his lush life was really like and what he did and how far he would go. I am sorry to all of you he hurt but I had no idea what was going on. This world Lush was his life he lived a cyber life for 4 years till the end about 6 months ago. I'm sure if you were friends with him you will know who I am talking about but for those of you who are interested just message me and I will give you his name. I am not the husband he said I was I am a woman I am his wife he never talked about except when maybe describing himself at least that's what he told me. I also found out he had posted fake pictures claiming to be him through the years. Oh he's smart he knows how to pull the wool over one's eyes.
Now I'm not ratting him out to get back at him; well maybe in a way paybacks are a bitch as they say; but what I'm really doing is trying to warn you everyone that there are liars who only look out for themselves and their own pleasure. I know I caught him many times late at night yes he hurt me a lot but he also hurt a lot of you as well.
As I stated before if you are interested just message me and ask I will tell you I will answer any questions you might have and no he's not going to come back I've already warned him of what might happen his career is at stake and he has too much to loose not just me but his whole future as a doctor. He really pulled one on a lot of us and for that I am sorry because he's not and will never apologize because he doesn't think he did anything wrong.
My husband hurt a lot of people I know some personally but I'm sure there are a lot out there I don't know. He was a very good writer one of the best and his stories were very well liked by all since his deletion his stories have also been deleted. It is very unfortunate that my husband only had his best interests at heart he only cared about himself and didn't care who he hurt not me or anyone else male or female from what I gather. He had a big following he was a god so to speak here but he wasn't a true friend he lied to one and all and hurt everyone or at least most in his path both male and female.
He hurt me the most for I am finding out each day what his lush life was really like and what he did and how far he would go. I am sorry to all of you he hurt but I had no idea what was going on. This world Lush was his life he lived a cyber life for 4 years till the end about 6 months ago. I'm sure if you were friends with him you will know who I am talking about but for those of you who are interested just message me and I will give you his name. I am not the husband he said I was I am a woman I am his wife he never talked about except when maybe describing himself at least that's what he told me. I also found out he had posted fake pictures claiming to be him through the years. Oh he's smart he knows how to pull the wool over one's eyes.
Now I'm not ratting him out to get back at him; well maybe in a way paybacks are a bitch as they say; but what I'm really doing is trying to warn you everyone that there are liars who only look out for themselves and their own pleasure. I know I caught him many times late at night yes he hurt me a lot but he also hurt a lot of you as well.
As I stated before if you are interested just message me and ask I will tell you I will answer any questions you might have and no he's not going to come back I've already warned him of what might happen his career is at stake and he has too much to loose not just me but his whole future as a doctor. He really pulled one on a lot of us and for that I am sorry because he's not and will never apologize because he doesn't think he did anything wrong.