I was discussing with a friend (a girl) about her relationships. She believes she will have a better marriage if she have more boyfriends until she gets marry. She thinks she has more experiences about the relationship when she has more boyfriends.
I will not tell my idea now, but what do you think? if you think she is right, then how many boyfriends/girlfriends should people have before marriage? or do you think if people get marry with their first bf/gf, they can't be happy because less relationship experiences? what is the negative and positive part of having lots of relationship?
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more boyfriends means a better relationship?
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Rainbow Warrior
I agree with your friend! A girl needs to develop experience with a number of different guys before she even thinks of committing to one! It will save her a lot of headaches down the road. I'm on about number 75! :-)
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Jas....lol..more the better fun you have also....und if you are b.i. then you get 2X the dates....
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Well my mom thinks so. She got divorced and she feels I'm WAY too young to be serious. She is totally against me moving in with a guy since she feels it will limit me. Plus I still need to do my Masters or go to law school (my dad's dream haha). So yup my mom agrees....be young, have fun and date and learn all about different kinds of guys to find out about yourself as a woman and your own needs and desires. So.....well.....I'm following mom's plan right now hehe. Well I'm way behind Bethany so far (only 5 BF so far....with one serious one-Steve).
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experience counts a lot, yet the blushing bride sweeping down the isle dressed in white is supposed to be a virgin. Tosh, girls get out there use that pussy for what its designed for , PLEASURE lol x
I have not regretted a think, well ok i lie i regret marrying the violent sod i did but the divorce settlement coming any day yippppeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee x
p.s dont forget the condoms xxxxxxx
I have not regretted a think, well ok i lie i regret marrying the violent sod i did but the divorce settlement coming any day yippppeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee x
p.s dont forget the condoms xxxxxxx
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I don't think it's the number of boyfriends so much as different types of guys.
You don't have to have actual 'boyfriends' to gauge what you don't like. Playing the dating game is great for figuring out what you want.
Although, there's much to be learned from relationships, entering different relationships for the 'experience' aspect of it is counterproductive, as the more relationships we have that end, the more jaded we tend to become. And it's just more scars to bring into the next relationship.
A history of (too many) failed relationships is indicative of lots of things, but successful marriage isn't usually one of them.
You don't have to have actual 'boyfriends' to gauge what you don't like. Playing the dating game is great for figuring out what you want.
Although, there's much to be learned from relationships, entering different relationships for the 'experience' aspect of it is counterproductive, as the more relationships we have that end, the more jaded we tend to become. And it's just more scars to bring into the next relationship.
A history of (too many) failed relationships is indicative of lots of things, but successful marriage isn't usually one of them.
"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
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I think it depends on the person. Why sleep with a lot of people. If you are not feeling it. There is nothing saying that anyone is going to be faithful in marriage now. It is up to you to know what is best for you. Wishing her the best and hopes she finds what she is looking
Have lots of fun
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One opinion is that if a girl gets into many serious committed relationships, that end badly, then her later marriage may not go as well, because that kind of experience won't encourage commitment or trust. However I would agree with what a lot of others have said - it's good to date different kinds of people and get to know what people are like and what kind of person is right for you.
Also because the media/society talks about love as if it has one form. It doesn't! The kind of attraction and relationship you have with someone can affect your happiness so you need to find the right kind.
Also because the media/society talks about love as if it has one form. It doesn't! The kind of attraction and relationship you have with someone can affect your happiness so you need to find the right kind.
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Phaypi is totally right. The key is to date different types of guys. Jenny helps me and my mom too by giving me advice to open my mind up and to consider different guys that maybe I wouldn't necessarily date. Sometimes a guy can really surprise you and maybe you will learn something about yourself. Haha anyways Phaypi is so damn smart and sensible I know her marriage will be amazing.