As someone who loves all sorts of music, I cringe when I hear that clichéd baritone sax thing during a "sex scene".
Seriously though, I'm guessing that there's no one answer, maybe depending on the mood, or the setting, or other factors?
I know, for instance, that my partner, Sarah can't get enough of these two examples, when she's in the mood for some romance: and yeah, okay, there is a saxaphone but, come on, Candy Dulfer; such a classy lady and a great saxophonist.
I wish I could remember what was on it, but there was one time I was with an escort (yes, I used to do that) and her playlist was just so different from what other escorts I had been with used, it really kicked the experience up a notch. And she was pretty fun to start with.
Generally, I would tend to go for smooth jazz or maybe even just classical piano for a love making soundtrack today. Basically something that's going to stay in the background and out of the way. Dulfer would fit, probably.
There's an element of heat in this story.
Consuming Fire of Her Desire - Elements comp entry
