Hi, I have been asked out by a female friend of my sister who has helped to decorate my new apartment. She says she wants to show me the sights of the new city I have moved to. My sister has mentioned the friend is gay, so I have not dicussed this with my sister. I have just got divorced and I am ready to live a little.
Now the day has come I am very nervous. Has anyone any advice to give to a virgin lesbian?
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Is this a date or a "DATE"? Can it be she just intends on it being a platonic outing or are you sure it is more?
If it is more and you are interested then I would just be yourself. She will detect that this is new to you. Dont let her pressure you, take things slow. Go at your pace , be sure it is for you.
Hopefully it all works out for you. But if you are definitely into exploring this side of your sexuality and this doesnt work with her, dont give up. There is someone out there for you for sure.
If it is more and you are interested then I would just be yourself. She will detect that this is new to you. Dont let her pressure you, take things slow. Go at your pace , be sure it is for you.
Hopefully it all works out for you. But if you are definitely into exploring this side of your sexuality and this doesnt work with her, dont give up. There is someone out there for you for sure.
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Nikki is right - just be yourself. She sounds nice, if she helped with your apartment - let us know what happens!
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Nikki is right - just be yourself. She sounds nice, if she helped with your apartment - let us know what happens!
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wear your best underwear, just in case. ;) in seriousness, just have fun, don't have expectations, but be open to anything that happens, and if you're nervous, it's fine. it's new, it's exciting, and you are allowed to be nervous and unsure. it's probably kind of cute on you, too. 
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Bonnet Flaunter
Hope it all goes well! If she's just being friendly, then you'll make a great new friend, and she seems to be really nice, as she's helped you with the apartment! As Nikki says, if you are interested in exploring your sexuality in this way, you'll meet someone else, even maybe through this new friend!
However if she is interested, and you're open to this, then she'll let you know....
Good luck! Don't be too nervous and let us know how it goes!!
However if she is interested, and you're open to this, then she'll let you know....
Good luck! Don't be too nervous and let us know how it goes!!
Thank you all for your advice and especially your reassurance.
I wore new underwear!
The evening didn't quite go how I hoped. It was more like a sitcom really.
By the time we had visited 3 bars the 2 of us had swelled to a gang of 8. Alice, my date was at the bar and she appeared to be having quite a heated debate with a woman there and when she returned to where we were sitting was quite on edge. It was very noisy in there and I struggled to hear what was being said. I went to the toilet and the woman at the bar followed me in. I could see her feet when i looked under the cubicle door waiting. In the end I had to come out and she wouldn't let me out of the cubicle.
She asked if I was Alice's latest girlfriend and did I know she would dump me once she had slept with me. I was a bit dumfounded to be honest aswell as a bit merry. If I had just pee'd I could have wet myself.
At the end of the evening Alice did stay the night but nothing happened. By the time I has showered and put on my best PJ's she was asleep!
She had to go to a family birthday 200 miles away over the weekend (she had already told me) and will be back late tonight and we kissed goodbye. To be fair she has rung me once and text me twice since yesterday.
To make matters worse, when I went to my sisters to babysit yeaterday, and her husband was grinning from ear to ear as my sister asked me how my date went! Apparently, Alice had asked if she thought I would go! Then her dick of a husband told me he always thought I looked gay!!!!!!!
So, we are still going out and my sister knows!
I wore new underwear!
The evening didn't quite go how I hoped. It was more like a sitcom really.
By the time we had visited 3 bars the 2 of us had swelled to a gang of 8. Alice, my date was at the bar and she appeared to be having quite a heated debate with a woman there and when she returned to where we were sitting was quite on edge. It was very noisy in there and I struggled to hear what was being said. I went to the toilet and the woman at the bar followed me in. I could see her feet when i looked under the cubicle door waiting. In the end I had to come out and she wouldn't let me out of the cubicle.
She asked if I was Alice's latest girlfriend and did I know she would dump me once she had slept with me. I was a bit dumfounded to be honest aswell as a bit merry. If I had just pee'd I could have wet myself.
At the end of the evening Alice did stay the night but nothing happened. By the time I has showered and put on my best PJ's she was asleep!
She had to go to a family birthday 200 miles away over the weekend (she had already told me) and will be back late tonight and we kissed goodbye. To be fair she has rung me once and text me twice since yesterday.
To make matters worse, when I went to my sisters to babysit yeaterday, and her husband was grinning from ear to ear as my sister asked me how my date went! Apparently, Alice had asked if she thought I would go! Then her dick of a husband told me he always thought I looked gay!!!!!!!
So, we are still going out and my sister knows!
Active Ink Slinger
You are still going out with Alice? Not sure if thats what you meant. And your sisters husband is an asshole!!!!
Sounds like a crazy night!
Darling, go with your feelings. They wont let you down!!
Sounds like a crazy night!
Darling, go with your feelings. They wont let you down!!
Bonnet Flaunter
I'm with Nikki, your sister's husband sounds a pratt!!
Sounds like a mad night!
Glad you haven't been put off and are still getting to know Alice! You take care and keep us posted!
Sounds like a mad night!
Glad you haven't been put off and are still getting to know Alice! You take care and keep us posted!