Hi ladies. So recently my girlfriend told me she would like to try a mmf, this includes a double penetration scenario. I am becoming more comfortable about the idea with the only concern being that she may run off or find this other man more attractive. Any advice on how to get past this barrier? and also if you have done this how thrilling was it for you? Thanks for any advice!
If she is going to run off with someone else, you really aren't going stop it regardless. I'd suggest you find someone with experience to make this happen and talk, talk talk with your girlfriend.
depends on why she wants one, i used to have a guy who i shared everything with he got ill and died, married the creep i am with now and we got into 3 somes etc because our marriage is so bad, which is the wrong reason, worked for the first guy mistak for the second. from satisfaction point of view mmmmmm hot hot hot very thrilling but depends on the guys, LS63563 talk is the answer, but no rush, any doubt answer is no, if t here is a flaw there it will get worse ok enjoy xxx
Didn't mean to be harsh, but you can't keep a girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife by locking them away from everyone else. They can fall out of love with you and in love with someone else whether they have sex with them or not. I believe, though others can argue differently, that sex doesn't have a lot to do with love. I think people who share lots of sex with multiple partners, build strong love relationships and since cheating isn't really an issue, are likely to be happiest in their love relationship. Of course providing they chose well to begin with. Good luck, and enjoy the fruits of many trees.
All very helpful thank you! I think my biggest concern is that you him being better or showing me up in bed. The feelings we have for each other are strong between my girlfriend and i, i was merely curious to see it if would have a damaging effect from a physical standpoint.
You can't do much about size, one or the other of you is going to be at least slightly bigger than the other. Don't go the route of trying to find a little bitty guy, that makes you very little in another way. Do, do, do however try to know how to use your equipment better, as well as know how to treat hers.
all excellent advice! thank you!
Why not find another couple who have a similar interest. Talk with them and you may both discover other fantasies you'd like to pursue.
This is a question of how confident you are in yourself and in your relationship. My boyfriend shares me with other guys, and the double-penetration scene is something I personally love, and I think every woman should have the opportunity to at least try it once, just to get it out of her system (or INTO it!) ;-)
Talk it over completely with her and ask her these questions yourself! If she satisfies your concerns, then oblige her curiosity and go for it, and be glad you have a sexually adventurous girlfriend!
all these words of advice are very much appreciated! Thank you to all who responded!
all these words of advice are very much appreciated! Thank you to all who responded!