I just joined today so I was looking for some advice from the ladies about how to do things around here. I'm interested in chatting with some people and getting to know them and seeing where things go. Any help is appreciated
A great option when you're new is checking out the chatrooms - just jump into the conversation and remember - treat people as you would if you were meeting them at a social event or a bar and you'll probably have more luck getting to know them.
Some other tips:
- fill out your profile so that it really gives people an idea of who you are and what you're looking for
- post in the forums and make yourself more visible on the site
- vote/comment on author's stories and then send them a nice PM about it. People are much more responsive when you take an interest in them and who they are
- browse through profiles and contact those people that are open to chatting or are looking for what you're into