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Somebody's Dreams
Not sure I understand the question. 
I'd love it if you read my story for the Notorious Competition.
The Temptress of Tanner Street
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Quote by darkdac
Did u try to fuck and guy did`t manage to get a hard dick? How offen?
Okay. Got it. Never happened to me. Of course, I don't usually date older guys which is probably a larger percentage of that issue?
I'd love it if you read my story for the Notorious Competition.
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Yes I have, and it was frustrating for both.
I understand that most men will have the issue at sometime in their life. I also understand the older a guy is the greater the risk.
But be sure an Erection is a significant portion of a mans definition, but certainly not the only one.
I understand that most men will have the issue at sometime in their life. I also understand the older a guy is the greater the risk.
But be sure an Erection is a significant portion of a mans definition, but certainly not the only one.
Rainbow Warrior
After David's car accident, he was impotent for awhile during his long recovery, so we had to work on that. Then there was a guy in a couple we swapped partners with who was so nervous, he couldn't get it up. I couldn't even suck him erect. He was mortified and I felt badly for him, but he went down on me for 2 hours trying to make it up to me.
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After David's car accident, he was impotent for awhile during his long recovery, so we had to work on that. Then there was a guy in a couple we swapped partners with who was so nervous, he couldn't get it up. I couldn't even suck him erect. He was mortified and I felt badly for him, but he went down on me for 2 hours trying to make it up to me.
Dang ... must have an extremely strong tongue to last two hours. Hope you enjoyed the ordeal!!
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I have an very much older man as a FWB. I was very friendly with him, and his wife before she died but never intimate. Some time after she died he disclosed to me he had attempted to have sex with an old friend of theirs and he couldnt get it up. He was quite depressed.
I agreed to spend some time with him and see what we could do. Unfortunately after medical advice he realised he was never going to be the man he was. I now help him out with masturbation and oral sex very occasionally.
I agreed to spend some time with him and see what we could do. Unfortunately after medical advice he realised he was never going to be the man he was. I now help him out with masturbation and oral sex very occasionally.
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Hello girls
How many men happens not to get hard whatewer u made?
Are you asking...what, what I do if my partner isn't able to achieve an erection? Your phone is not doing you any favours.
Anyway. If my partner wasn't able to achieve an erection after sustained, serious efforts on my part, I think that I would lean more towards something being wrong medically--cardiac issues, for instance, can affect a man's ability to achieve and maintain an erection--rather than leaning towards he's just not in to me.
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I have an very much older man as a FWB. I was very friendly with him, and his wife before she died but never intimate. Some time after she died he disclosed to me he had attempted to have sex with an old friend of theirs and he couldnt get it up. He was quite depressed.
I agreed to spend some time with him and see what we could do. Unfortunately after medical advice he realised he was never going to be the man he was. I now help him out with masturbation and oral sex very occasionally.
You are a sweetheart xoxo
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Hello girls
How many men happens not to get hard whatewer u made?
Happens quite often when I try to get them ready for second round
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only experienced this once but the guy was so nervous about meeting me, and he struggled, 2nd time we met tho he was raring to go
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Older guy here. Yea with age the dick doesn't always cooperate. However, it doesn't help that sex gets boring, particularly in my situation (always missionary). My wife is
overweight and is unattractive in other ways. She also has bad knees.
I recently came up with a solution which you can read in my latest story, Move over Aquaman, Superman is here.
Ladies, I want to know what do you think of my solution?
overweight and is unattractive in other ways. She also has bad knees.
I recently came up with a solution which you can read in my latest story, Move over Aquaman, Superman is here.
Ladies, I want to know what do you think of my solution?
Coco Pop
Quote by Hasabrain2
Older guy here. Yea with age the dick doesn't always cooperate. However, it doesn't help that sex gets boring, particularly in my situation (always missionary). My wife is
overweight and is unattractive in other ways. She also has bad knees.
I recently came up with a solution which you can read in my latest story, Move over Aquaman, Superman is here.
Ladies, I want to know what do you think of my solution?
Idk about your solution but you're always talking trash about your wife and it's not nice. Imagine if she saw it. It's just unnecessary and I really feel like she deserves better.
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Idk about your solution but you're always talking trash about your wife and it's not nice. Imagine if she saw it. It's just unnecessary and I really feel like she deserves better.
Truth.
Dude, if you're this unhappy with her, imagine how unhappy she is with you. Maybe build a girl up rather than break her down. We tend to blossom like that, with or without the man that treated us badly.
For the OP, the trick is to have it not be the focus when it happens. A couple can always play. Fun and intimacy is what it's all about anyway.
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Older guy here. Yea with age the dick doesn't always cooperate. However, it doesn't help that sex gets boring, particularly in my situation (always missionary). My wife is
overweight and is unattractive in other ways. She also has bad knees.
I recently came up with a solution which you can read in my latest story, Move over Aquaman, Superman is here.
Ladies, I want to know what do you think of my solution?
The over weight problem stems from you seeing as you're weighing her down.
Once she drops you, lbs won't be an issue.
Gentleman Stranger
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Idk about your solution but you're always talking trash about your wife and it's not nice. Imagine if she saw it. It's just unnecessary and I really feel like she deserves better.
Gotta agree. Some things need to be kept to yourself - and besides, pictures on his profile, if actually him, would seem to indicate a bit of a pot/kettle situation here.
Maybe a pause for a little introspection would be in order... 
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Older guy here. Yea with age the dick doesn't always cooperate. However, it doesn't help that sex gets boring, particularly in my situation (always missionary). My wife is
overweight and is unattractive in other ways. She also has bad knees.
I recently came up with a solution which you can read in my latest story, Move over Aquaman, Superman is here.
Ladies, I want to know what do you think of my solution?
I know you're Gods gift to humanity and it's difficult for you to fathom this, but you being foul about your wife publicly, makes you look really not that great of a person. I'd eat 10 boxes of doughnuts a day as a coping mechanism being married to you.
To the OP; I date older men, and I have not had this issue, but it's not a big deal. Just reassurance and talking about it I imagine would help.
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I love sex sessions with men that leaves them totally unable to get a rise out of their little man
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Are you asking...what, what I do if my partner isn't able to achieve an erection? Your phone is not doing you any favours.
Anyway. If my partner wasn't able to achieve an erection after sustained, serious efforts on my part, I think that I would lean more towards something being wrong medically--cardiac issues, for instance, can affect a man's ability to achieve and maintain an erection--rather than leaning towards he's just not in to me.
This, plus stress or anxiety could be the cause. A caring partner would gently delve into the potential reasons first and find out why and react as she feels is appropriate to it.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
If it's not medical, most sexual dysfunction stems from anxiety. The key is to take it slow and focus on the process of being intimate rather than the goal of getting hard/getting off. Also, having an open communication about sex is helpful - learn about each others turn-ons and turn-offs. Also, it's important to recognize it as a couple's issue, rather than one person's fault, and to work together at it rather than blaming or shaming any particular person.
Don't believe everything that you read.
I'm an older guy who can still get a good erection but not as frequently and some times of day work better than others (early morning and mid-afternoon in particular). If it doesn't work, though, I'm not averse to other forms of play (e.g. oral or manual on her) or even just a naked cuddle.
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One of my favorite aunts talks to me about sex once in a while, especially if she's had a little liquid encouragement. Its actually kind of sweet - she sharing her experiences and giving advice. If the stuff she's revealed to me about hereelf is true, I'm very impressed about her love life and things and people she did. Back to the point - turns out my uncle (her husband) is now 70 and apparently doesn't get too hard anymore. My aunt loves cuddling with him, and has consigned her "hard banging super fucks" (her words) with my uncle to the past. She won't cheat on him. But she has been surprised that, even when sort of soft or maybe semi hard, she can suck him to a nice orgasm and he still cums quite nicely. Something to keep in mind for lovers with erection difficulties - the blood might not be filling the penis, but the nerves are all still quite well and capable of delivering an orgasm.