Hi to all,
Just a sincere question. Is it considered cheating for me to be here on lush even if I have a girlfriend? She doesn't know yet that I'm here on lush and I was here way before we became a couple.
Thanks.
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Not sure if asked before but in any case...Hi
I know it's Ask the Girls, but my take is this.
If you're in a relationship, they should know important things about you. I consider memberships to an erotic site an 'important item' - M'Lady knows I'm here, she even reads some with me, even though we are not married.
Try to hide things, and eventually it will blow up in your face.
If you're in a relationship, they should know important things about you. I consider memberships to an erotic site an 'important item' - M'Lady knows I'm here, she even reads some with me, even though we are not married.
Try to hide things, and eventually it will blow up in your face.
Mazztastic
I think that the general consensus is that if you are keeping it secret and if it would upset your OH to find out that you were doing it, well... that is cheating...
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Welcome to Lush BTW!
Alpha Blonde
I honestly think it depends on why you're here. If you're just here to read/write stories and play around in the forums, I don't think it's a big deal to keep it to yourself. It's just another social network. Unless you're the type of couple to always monitor each other's online activity and trade facebook passwords, then I don't see writing, reading and posting stuff online, regardless of the forum or website, to be cause for alarm.
If you're here to cyber, look for an online relationship or do the chatroom scene, there are more implications for deception. If you think it would bother your GF, then it's probably a sketchy thing to do.
If you're here to cyber, look for an online relationship or do the chatroom scene, there are more implications for deception. If you think it would bother your GF, then it's probably a sketchy thing to do.
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Quote by MazzaThis is it for me, is it wrong to cheat then? That is a different question. Personally I would say a little cheating is healthy.
I think that the general consensus is that if you are keeping it secret and if it would upset your OH to find out that you were doing it, well... that is cheating...
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I honestly think it depends on why you're here. If you're just here to read/write stories and play around in the forums, I don't think it's a big deal to keep it to yourself. It's just another social network. Unless you're the type of couple to always monitor each other's online activity and trade facebook passwords, then I don't see writing, reading and posting stuff online, regardless of the forum or website, to be cause for alarm.
If you're here to cyber, look for an online relationship or do the chatroom scene, there are more implications for deception. If you think it would bother your GF, then it's probably a sketchy thing to do.
I second this.
