Premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation can be a pretty embarrassing issue for a guy. Sometimes it's just nerves or excitement (especially with younger guys), and sometimes it can be a bigger issue that he needs to work on.

Have you experienced this with a partner (I assume almost every woman has at one point or another, but perhaps I'm wrong)? Is it a turn on or turn off? How do you handle it when your man cums really quickly? What's your response to him?

Ever ejaculation is premature because I always want to go on forever.

I know it’s embarrassing for you men, but as long as you are willing to help me find my way to the end, I find it flattering! You were so excited you couldn’t wait!

Yes, I did experience it and for me was not a turn off (still isn’t). The problem was the man, as it seems that this was a turn off for him after he ejaculated prematurely. I tried to comfort him and engage him in other activities, but he was so upset that this happened to him, that he couldn’t enjoyed any other sexual activities after that. And this bothered me more than the premature ejaculation. So, next time we switch the order of doing things: oral sex on me (first orgasm), use sex toys on me (second orgasm) and then the actual fucking, which was again pretty quick, but this time he didn’t felt that bad anymore. Or at least he didn’t show it, like the first time. But this is not a solution that I recommend as I don’t see it working on a long term. In my case the relationship didn’t last, as deep inside I think he was not feeling man enough and started to act very jealous. But of course, it takes two to break a relationship and I think my part of the guilt was that I was acting too selfish and not discussing enough the problem.

It's kind of flattering. However, it usually means a more attentive and longer round #2.

Clouds and silver linings...

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It's kind of flattering. However, it usually means a more attentive and longer round #2.

Clouds and silver linings...

I love the way you think 🤔 🥰

I knew this sweet guy who wouldn't necessarily cum fast, he would last a good five to seven minutes, but he would have to intermittently stop and catch his breath or stroke me very slowly to get there. I could tell he wanted to please me and it was heartbreaking to watch him struggle not to cum. He knew his limitations though and would eat my pussy like no tomorrow before he fucked me every time.

There is a fairly easy temp fix for this, lidocaine gel. It's available OTC in different brands. I think the strongest is 6%. You or the guy rub it into his cock's head until it's mostly absorbed and then wipe the residual off, you don't want your vag getting numb. He can then pump as hard/fast as you both want and he won't cum. The effect wears off in about 10-15 mins.

I've met a few guys who - their first time with me - came pretty fast. We just both needed to tone things down a bit during the preliminaries - lots of practice. I have also known one guy just the opposite - we were playing around a lot - fingering, sucking, jerking, then a lot of fucking. He didn't soften a bit after more than an hour - and I have to say it was an incredible hour. I asked if he was OK - did he need help going "over the edge"? He said "no", he was just really enjoying himself, and could cum when he wanted. I told him I wanted it in my mouth because I had to get home, started sucking him and he shot a nice load in my mouth about 10 seconds later. Wow. He became a very special friend! Had him visit me a few times in college, and my roommate and I enjoyed a fantastic evening of FMF with him. Not many guys have the gift of such prolonged erections.