how would you want a young man, possibly a co-worker, to approach you about how he feels about you, and wants to pursue either a physical or romantic relationship?
I am 19, interested in a 42 year old co-worker, and I need help.
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question for the older women (over 30)
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For one, I wouldn't want him to refer to me as an older woman.
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Ask her if she'd like to join you for a drink after work.
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I do not think it is ant different as there are many woman who are attracted to older man for many reasons..Talk with her and say.."Hey I really like you..Would you like to do something together"
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Just be direct. If you like her and want to go out then just ask her. I find it very refreshing when a guy or girl just gets to it and doesnt play any games. If she is interested you will soon know and if she isnt, playing games isnt going to change that.
Good Luck and do tell us how it goes!
Good Luck and do tell us how it goes!
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I agree with Nikki and Sweet Penny.
Be nice, respectful and just talk to her.
Don't try to be a big shot or overly impress her.
Just be yourself and express your interest in her.
Best of luck to you and please let us know how it goes!
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Steph
Be nice, respectful and just talk to her.
Don't try to be a big shot or overly impress her.
Just be yourself and express your interest in her.
Best of luck to you and please let us know how it goes!
Kisses!
Steph
It sounds like the two of you have already become friends. Do you know her situation? Is she available? How does she feel about dating a co-worker? I would say that you should approach the subject of going out together no differently than if you were the same age. If you treat her like an "older woman" she is likely to regard you as a "nice kid".
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Quote by SweetPenny[
For one, I wouldn't want him to refer to me as an older woman.
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It sounds like the two of you have already become friends. Do you know her situation? Is she available? How does she feel about dating a co-worker? I would say that you should approach the subject of going out together no differently than if you were the same age. If you treat her like an "older woman" she is likely to regard you as a "nice kid".
I'm pretty sure she is available, and I'm not sure how she feels, we haven't had that type of discussion yet. What if its more of a physical relationship than romance?
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I would be flattered but wouldn't want to persue things as for me personally the age gap would be too much. But whatever you do - good luck
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I'm pretty sure she is available, and I'm not sure how she feels, we haven't had that type of discussion yet. What if its more of a physical relationship than romance?
Well if this is what you both want then it would be fine. Maybe you can just invite her out to lunch and see how it goes. And as SuzyQ said, treat as a woman, not an OLDER WOMAN. Dont mention the age gap unless she does and then try to difuse it.
Just some more advice. Be very careful since she is a co-worker. If things dont go well it can create a very awkward situation for you both.
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Should I be direct about asking to get involved physically or work my way into it such as getting together sometime and go from there?
I see this working out much better as physical and not romance, and I just want to do it right.
Letting her know that you're not looking for a commitment might be just the thing that will bring her around. Just tell her that you're available to fill any blank pages in her little black book.
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Dont let ur feeling go in vain. Just take d first step by opening up.