So I pretty much always suffer from premature ejaculation. What is the best way for me to go about having sex - especially with new partners? What should I maybe do more of, instead of penetration? How can I make sure that, even if it's short, my partner will enjoy the experience? Also, I last longer on the bottom - is it better to last longer on bottom, or shorter on top? Any additional information would be greatly appreciated, this situation is a huge pain.
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QUESTION - what to do in the case of premature ejaculation?
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Rainbow Warrior
If you think its a huge pain for you, think of your partner. Anything you can do to make sure she has an orgasm first, DO it! If she likes to be licked, spend extra time and attention doing a proper job. (yes, most guys still think of it as a chore!) I've found that guys who cum too fast can learn to stretch it out a little longer, but not by much (stop thrusting when you get too close to cumming, and just kiss her while you rest inside her). Younger guys can usually go a few rounds, so if they cum too fast the first time, they can usually last longer the second or third time. I usually give a blow-job first to younger guys who cum too quickly, just to get the first one over with so they'll last longer the next round.
Active Ink Slinger
I had a guy I liked with a hair trigger for a while and it was depressing for me, and heartbreaking for him. He really tried. We tried masturbating and oral as forerunners but they didn't work very well. In the end it was foreplay. I encouraged him to use all his skills, kissing, oral, fingers - anything to stimulate me to bringing me up to the point where I was close to achieving an orgasm. I would give him the word and climb onto him cowgirl and that is a certainty for me. While I was enjoying the pleasure of my orgasm he would cum, virtually simultaneous orgasms. he was able to recover fairly quickly (oral helped) and we often had three wonderful experiences, and that's all they were, irrespective of how many we had he was quick.
I assume you always provide her with her pleasure giving her oral before you enter her. I am sure she wont have a problem with you cumming quickly after that.For me being on top is a certain orgasm. See how you go after some productive foreplay and then have her cowgirl. Maybe you will both benefit. Good luck.
I assume you always provide her with her pleasure giving her oral before you enter her. I am sure she wont have a problem with you cumming quickly after that.For me being on top is a certain orgasm. See how you go after some productive foreplay and then have her cowgirl. Maybe you will both benefit. Good luck.
Perform oral sex on ur girl and please her with ur tongue n fingers as long as u can.
Use sprays..... but make sure to use condoms in that case.
U on bottom and she on top....... if i were ur girl, i would have enjoyed more as i could control the situation and make moves so as to get more stimulation n pleasure.
Use sprays..... but make sure to use condoms in that case.
U on bottom and she on top....... if i were ur girl, i would have enjoyed more as i could control the situation and make moves so as to get more stimulation n pleasure.
Big-haired Bitch
Try a cock ring...and edging. Also, seeing a doctor wouldn't hurt.
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