Ladies, this is a 2 part question
1. How many of u are on here with out ur husband knowing about ur lush account?
2. How many of u are having a secret affair when ur husband is gone?
Being that I am divorced, I cant give a realistic answer. But that has never stopped me in the past so I dont think keeping your Lush acct a secret from your hubby is really that bad of a thing. But it also depends on why you have it. If you are here to read stories, chat with friends, even use it as a tool for fantasies then what is the real harm. If you are here to have an ongoing cyber relationship then maybe it is a problem.
As for a secret IRL affair, well I dont believe in cheating. I will never judge someone who does because i dont know what the reasons are and besides who am I to judge anybody for anything!!