Wife is 10 years older than I.Yes,I married a cougar.Her job makes it difficult to have a traditional marriage.Has been over a month since our last romantic encounter.She is gone for a day or more and when she is home she is resting and getting caught up.Our romance includes a back rub then oral for her then her toy.Then I get to finish.What can I do to make it happen more.I know it makes it special for her when she is ready.Guess what I am asking is how can I make it happen more?