She wont give me a blowjob.

Quote by Txrich
Even after bringing her to orgasm orally every time we have sex, she never sucks my cock.

Its been at lease 18 months since my cock has been in her mouth. I shave my balls, U get almost into a 68 position on top of her when I am licking her pussy, and all she will do is stroke my cock.

AM I doing something wrong?

Does she know you really like them? Does she know that you might miss them from a previous relationship? Lots of ways to bring it up without seeming like you're begging or asking or are upset with her. From my perspective - the guys I give them to know they are getting them because I want to give them, and actually like giving them - I consider it a gift - I expect noting in return but never turn down some reciprocation.

Maybe if you approach her subtly and let her know how great it would be for her to surprise you with one someday - a birthday? Christmas? Someone's wedding? And if a discussion actually starts, very nicely let her know that you do not expect one, that you do not consider a BJ as a condition of keeping the relationship alive, that you do not expect her to swallow your cum - but maybe during foreplay just a few minutes of sucking would be awesome.

Here's a thought. I have a cousin who is a few years older than me, who gave me a lot of pointers as to the art of sucking cock. We'd watch porn together. According to her, she loved giving her friends BJs, and I heard from one of her boyfriends that she was really good at it. Then, she was in a car accident, and had some trauma from the collision. One thing that happened to her was she now has a case of TMD - a disorder in her jaw that makes opening her mouth wide or for extended periods of time very painful. Needless to say, according to her, her BJ "career" has been severely cut. In fact, she has to stop sucking a cock after only a minute of so since she is in pain.

Now - she's transitioned to giving handies, and letting her friends cum in different fun ways - but he loves it when her friends point their cocks into her mouth and cum. That way she can suck fr a minute (maybe), play with the cock or watch him jerk off, then still accept the cum and swallow and enjoy it.

OK - this was a long-winded tribute to a cousin who has made a positive change. None of her friends get BJs anymore - they're off the table. But they still get to cum into - or in some cases - actually in her mouth, just not with all the oral in-mouth workup. They and she don't complain, but I can tell - when we watch porn - that she really would like to give what she calls a "real blowjob" - start to finish in her mouth.

Maybe your girlfriend has some medical issue you don't know about? Worth poking around a bit. When you cum - does she ever taste it? Maybe if you scooped some onto your finger and you sucked it off and said how delicious it was - and asked her to follow suit - if she won't, then its just some very personal issue she has with cocks. If she does - then maybe you two can start enjoying sharing your cum (collect it on her boobs, on your belly, in a glass - wherever).

Just my $0.02

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Kill her

Well, that is one solution.

Quote by Txrich
Even after bringing her to orgasm orally every time we have sex, she never sucks my cock.

Its been at lease 18 months since my cock has been in her mouth. I shave my balls, U get almost into a 68 position on top of her when I am licking her pussy, and all she will do is stroke my cock.

AM I doing something wrong?

I'm guessing you're fresh out of the shower - I don't touch a cock unless it is -

also your mentioned 69 wit you on top - personally I never do it like that. it's awful to me anyway.

her sitting w you in front?

or you might just be out of luck.

That’s rough. I get it. Here’s how I see it, though. Oral sex a way to give to the other person. I’ve been with women who do one thing, but not another, who have fetishes or don’t. It’s give and take. There’s gotta be something that she does for you that no other woman does, right? I get it, but try not to dismiss the other hot things she does for you.

That’s a tough one. My wife never wanted to give or receive oral sex. MY GF loves sucking my cock and licking my balls. She gets great pleasure from it (so she tells me). And I sure as hell love returning the favor.

There are a dozen reasons why cocksucking can be unpleasant, and as many reasons why it’s lovely and intimate and rewarding.

Generally, humans like to reciprocate giving behaviour. If she’s not, odds are there’s an actual barrier for her. Maybe it’s past trauma, maybe it’s a hygiene issue, maybe your cum is distasteful to her, maybe it’s literally difficult for her to keep her mouth open wide for a length of time.

Or maybe she just doesn’t like doing it.

Either way, a frank conversation is the best way to tackle this.

The best way to give feedback to someone is to:

• Be specific about when the behaviour happened ; on X day or time, not ‘you always’ or ‘you never’ statements. That’s too vague and you’ll end up getting hung up in the details.

• Be specific about the behaviour that is the issue; we had sex, I went down on you because I genuinely love to do that for you, and we fucked. You did not give oral attention to me.

• Explain how the behaviour impacts you personally. Don’t judge it, don’t guess at motivation. Make ‘me’ statements. When we’re intimate and I feel so incredibly close to you but you don’t reciprocate, I find myself wondering why. Is there something wrong? It’s not a fairness thing but I am concerned that perhaps something has happened that makes it a thing you don’t want to share with me. I’m concerned.

Or something similar.

To recap: “On X day, Y thing happened, and here’s how I feel about it.” This is by far and away the best way to have feedback conversations, as it lifts the blame/judgment off the exchange. You are simply sharing something with your partner that you think they need to know in order to have full and free communication.

Good luck! 🙂