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Should I ask my wife about it?

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My wife went out with six of her girlfriends one Friday night to celebrate one of the friend's birthday. My wife drove them all in our SUV. The next day I went to the SUV and discovered a single shoe (pump) on the passenger floorboard with a pair of ladies panties from Frederick's stuffed in it. The shoe was not my wife's. A myriad of questions popped into my mind such as, where's the other shoe...who's shoe is it...why are the panties in the shoe...etc. I didn't say anything to her about it and later in the day the shoe disappeared.

My wife and I trust each other and seeing the shoe wasn't hers, I believe it belongs to one of her friends. Of the six friends, three of them would shed their panties during the night. It wouldn't surprise me.

My wife told me very little about what happened that night other than she and her friends had fun.

Should I ask her about the shoe and panties?
Dani
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There's really no reason why you shouldn't ask her about her night. If anything, you guys can share a good laugh about it.

As to why it disappeared, whichever friend left the panties and shoe behind probably asked for them back. I leave things in my friends' cars all the time...and they leave things in mine. Either because of a wild night out, or just because it happens. And we ask for the items back or said items are returned to us if we've forgotten about them. It's no biggie.

"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
sprite
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obviously, it was the remnants of an all girl car orgy. we have them all the time. nothing says fun like six girls stuffed in a small car having sex!

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Dani
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Quote by sprite
obviously, it was the remnants of an all girl car orgy. we have them all the time. nothing says fun like six girls stuffed in a small car having sex!



You said you'd never tell anyone. You can kiss our car orgies goodbye forever.

"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
Poppet
Cheeky Chick
If she doesn't bring it up, I wouldn't say anything. It doesn't really matter if it wasn't your wife's.
buttercup2u
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That's a hard question to answer. I guess it depends on how bad you want to know. The fact that it wasn't hers should be good enough.
PhilAnders
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Partners, whether married or not, should be totally open, honest (and to use the current in vogue political term..."transparent") with one another. So just sit down with your wife and discuss this with her.
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Quote by sprite
obviously, it was the remnants of an all girl car orgy. we have them all the time. nothing says fun like six girls stuffed in a small car having sex!


LOL! Not really what I was thinking of, but that just made my night! Thanks!

Thanks everyone for the suggestions. The shoe wasn't hers, nor was the panty. I'm over it. If it's something I need to know she'll tell me.
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i dont see the need to ask your wife about it at all. It wasn't her shoe, it obviously belongs to one of her friends so why do you really need to know which friend? I also think it's a bit odd that you took a photograph of it. Can I ask why you did that?
pricklypear
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Quote by trinket
i dont see the need to ask your wife about it at all. It wasn't her shoe, it obviously belongs to one of her friends so why do you really need to know which friend? I also think it's a bit odd that you took a photograph of it. Can I ask why you did that?

evidence.
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Well.... If my SO went out for a night with the boys and in the morning I discovered a man's shoe with a pair of jocks inside, my curiosity would burn like crazy. I sure as hell would want to know what shenanigans went on.
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Quote by pricklypear

evidence.

Evidence of what exactly prickle?



Quote by Wildcat
Well.... If my SO went out for a night with the boys and in the morning I discovered a man's shoe with a pair of jocks inside, my curiosity would burn like crazy. I sure as hell would want to know what shenanigans went on.



Oddly enough, I think I would be afraid to ask!
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I think asking about it is the right and obvious thing to do. OF COURSE ask her about it. Why not? Are you curious about it? Yes? Then ASK HER. LOL She is your wife, and even if she was your girlfriend, and you wondered about something you should not be afraid to ask her. Heck, why not sit down with her and ask her about the entire evening? Isn't that what couples do? They share and wonder about the experiences the other is having or had? It is not a "trust" issue, but one of SHARING and being honest and communicating with each other.

Hell, if it was just a FRIEND and I saw that in their SUV, and I knew he/she went out and it was not theirs, I would ask. LOL
Dani
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Quote by Wildcat
Well.... If my SO went out for a night with the boys and in the morning I discovered a man's shoe with a pair of jocks inside, my curiosity would burn like crazy. I sure as hell would want to know what shenanigans went on.


Exactly. Not in a 'This is suspicious' sort of way, but more of an 'OMG, one shoe and a pair of undies? That's hilarious, what the hell happened?!' kind of way.

"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
pricklypear
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Quote by trinket
Evidence of what exactly prickle?


evidence of shenanigans.
Mazza
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Why wouldn't you ask?

I'd have thought it quite natural to discuss how a night out went? Given that the shoe and panties were left in the car (in plain view) it doesn't seem like she was trying to hide them.

If it's bothering you, you should ask - of course, don't leave it too long, because you'll be starting to stew over it, make it bigger in your mind and also losing teh opportunity to be casual about it...

Just ask her and be done, so you can get it off your mind...
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Quote by bassguitarbubba
My wife went out with six of her girlfriends one Friday night to celebrate one of the friend's birthday. My wife drove them all in our SUV. The next day I went to the SUV and discovered a single shoe (pump) on the passenger floorboard with a pair of ladies panties from Frederick's stuffed in it. The shoe was not my wife's. A myriad of questions popped into my mind such as, where's the other shoe...who's shoe is it...why are the panties in the shoe...etc. I didn't say anything to her about it and later in the day the shoe disappeared.

My wife and I trust each other and seeing the shoe wasn't hers, I believe it belongs to one of her friends. Of the six friends, three of them would shed their panties during the night. It wouldn't surprise me.

My wife told me very little about what happened that night other than she and her friends had fun.

Should I ask her about the shoe and panties?



That poor, unloved, well scuffed and unpolished stiletto!

Call the SAH - Stiletto abuse hotline.

What did she do, forget to torch her polish before slathering in on that puppy?

Now, I am more caught up by why you took a pick of it to post - hmmm? "Honey, I took a photo of this shoe, here, and posted it online at lushstories.com." biggrin Caution! You might not want to go there.
Unknown User
I want my shoe back you can so keep my undies...lol

me I would want to know

but we all have had THOSE nights that you wake up and think...OMG..did I do that

I am sure it was all in good fun

love the pic

laughing at what metilda wrote

me I have never lost a ..shoe..before..lol

I can think of a million things that could have happened

all good lush stories

ask nothing is going on

cheers
BikeBoy
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If I were you the long-lasting intrigue of unknown possibilities would outweigh the short-lived titillation of her confirming whatever did or did not happen. Contrary to that I can assure you I'd be trolling for hints occasionally, thinly disguised as pillow talk.