Size Matters....

Quote by Jon29

Probably. I have a big penis. In younger days the reaction from girls when they first saw it was enough to make me think the size was enough and sex was bound to be good for her. So I didn't feel the need to make effort. Guessing that a smaller guy would make more effort to compensate?
Fortunately I dated a girl who explained that actually the way I was using size made it a bad thing. Hard to hear at the time but very grateful later.

Quote by TrinityX


Sounds like you took her feedback on board. Smart man. I also agree with your theory. I've also found that men with larger penises are typically not as good at oral sex. Smaller sized men just seem to try harder for obvious reasons.

Although, an enlightened, larger man is oh so great to find...

Quote by Jon29

Just curious aren't most larger guys enlightened? I'm guessing most would have had the same experience as me - being told size at some point that size is good but isn't everything. Or maybe even a bad thing if it's not used "carefully"
One of the good things about having a bigger penis is women tend to talk more about what they like/want because there's no risk of upsetting the guy. It's easy for a woman to say I love your big penis but even better if you could do [whatever]. Maybe harder for a woman to say could you get better at oral to make up for having a small penis. A woman might have to be careful how she phrases that
The other thing I've found about size is women tend to like seeing/touching and just thinking about a big penis. Mental thing as well the physical feeling.
Funny thing though is that some women seem to be a bit embarrassed to admitting liking size. Never understood that one :)

Quote by TrinityX


How I wish they were enlightened. A percentage of men with larger penises are under a cave man idea that a good pounding is all we need. I mean, we need that, but we enjoy other things too.

I too, enjoy interacting with a larger penis. It can be fun and challenging to navigate...

As for embarrassment about admitting to enjoying a larger size, I think that most women are afraid to hurt feelings of smaller sized men, so they down play how much they enjoy it. Additionally, she wants to maintain tact with a larger sized man, and also down plays that as well.

I can't keep up with appearances and am honest about my preferences. No one is perfect and we just embrace what we have and hope others will too.

Quote by Jon29

Always interesting to hear women's opinions. I get what you mean about the cave man thing, guessing most guys start of thinking that way. Still has it's place though LOL
You sound like an enlightened woman which is always nice

Quote by Jasmine_x
As a very petite lady, I must say I prefer the average size and thickness of a male appendage. I have had larger and thicker, the initial penetration was painful and well he couldn't go "balls deep" so some of it was going to waste anyway.

However, big, small or average package, I don't care if I love the guy.

It matters up to a point. A really tiny one, sorry, no way. 4+ inches is enough IF he knows what to do with it. After that the bigger the better.

I have a really small dick.....wish i could date all of you girls. Lol

I believe the size matters a lot, but guys should know how to use it. Don't think it as a weapon if you don't know how to handle it skillfully.

When my husband is inside me, I can feel it all because he has a thick girth and I like all of him inside me so I can writhe against its base. He knows that and he encourages this, it drives me wild.

That for me is big enough and he is above average. That is all that matters. I like all my men like that, thick, hard, and long enough to devour it all. Most of all... they know this, they are bold and have such drive.

What is most important and what do they all have in common? They all know what they are doing with it.

inhales and takes a deep breath then steps up on the soap box

Okay..ill say it, the "bigger is better" thing is a competion driven and fueled by male ego. Several people have said it, being a passionate, respectful, and confident lover is and should be far more valued from a female's perspective. To be blunt, as a man I have found that if i am at the point where she is seeing my penis she has likely already decided that what i have should suffice so long as I make every attempt to please her along the way. Been with over twenty women since i started having sex not one took a look at my average penis and said "You know what, its and inch to short or a half inch to thin, im out". Please, Gentlemen, have some confidence, make it about the overall sexual experience and you will always find a more then pleased partner in the process...

*exhales and steps down, suddendly horny...WHERES MY WIFE ;)"

Size and girth matter.

From a strictly internet you are sending me a pic to look at and I dont know you? Then yes. Visually I like to see a nice thick long cock. In reality? I couldnt care less. Ive been with bigger and smaller with mixed results. Its always the person that matters. Maybe that sounds cringey but for me its true. For me to get off with a person there has to be some connection there or at least a level of trust. If we are at that point whatever size you are is perfect.

I don't think bigger is better just by size alone. The best sex is someone who knows how to use it. But if he knows how to fuck and has a big dick, that's just a bonus.

Napoleon would know best lol

I'm not going to lie ,I like big cocks.My hubby is a little over 8 inches and thick.