Have a question for the ladies. What is most important when you check out a guy???
Does his size matters? Or Does Stamina Matters? Does experience matter? or is it the guy as a person important?
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> Have a question for the ladies. What is most important when you check out a guy???
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> Does his size matters? Or Does Stamina Matters? Does experience matter? or is it the guy as a person important?
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Of course it's size first, stamina second, and person third... When I first see a guy (usually in the bus station) I ask to see his penis. Then I ask to see him jack off to see how long it takes him. Finally, I'll check to make sure he is a person and not a horse... like that really matters....
Ok boys, one more time about the penis thing....
Here is MY honest opinion. If a guy has a nice penis, that is a bonus. BUT there are so many other factors that mean so much more to most women... I like good looking men. I like confident men. I like funny men. This may be shallow, but I also like men with jobs. I like honest men. I like men to be open emotionally, but NOT too much too fast (see confidence). I also like men .... blah blah blah... all of these are more important than dick size.
If you are a gorgeous man, you will get "checked out" first. But if you have no personality or sense of humor, you won't get anywhere with me. Eye candy doesn't do it for me in bed if they don't make me feel good emotionally.
My first husband (yes, I'm an old woman) was 5'9", overweight, balding, and had an average sized dick. But he was very very smart, confident, treated me right, and was absolutely the best lover I ever had. Until he cheated on me, then he became a small dicked fattie.
So here is my advice to all you young men... PLAY YOUR STRENGTHS. If you are not tall, good looking, and rich, so what? If you have a great personality, a wicked sense of humor, and the confidence to talk (and listen), you will get lucky with me. :-)
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> Does his size matters? Or Does Stamina Matters? Does experience matter? or is it the guy as a person important?
>
Of course it's size first, stamina second, and person third... When I first see a guy (usually in the bus station) I ask to see his penis. Then I ask to see him jack off to see how long it takes him. Finally, I'll check to make sure he is a person and not a horse... like that really matters....
Ok boys, one more time about the penis thing....
Here is MY honest opinion. If a guy has a nice penis, that is a bonus. BUT there are so many other factors that mean so much more to most women... I like good looking men. I like confident men. I like funny men. This may be shallow, but I also like men with jobs. I like honest men. I like men to be open emotionally, but NOT too much too fast (see confidence). I also like men .... blah blah blah... all of these are more important than dick size.
If you are a gorgeous man, you will get "checked out" first. But if you have no personality or sense of humor, you won't get anywhere with me. Eye candy doesn't do it for me in bed if they don't make me feel good emotionally.
My first husband (yes, I'm an old woman) was 5'9", overweight, balding, and had an average sized dick. But he was very very smart, confident, treated me right, and was absolutely the best lover I ever had. Until he cheated on me, then he became a small dicked fattie.
So here is my advice to all you young men... PLAY YOUR STRENGTHS. If you are not tall, good looking, and rich, so what? If you have a great personality, a wicked sense of humor, and the confidence to talk (and listen), you will get lucky with me. :-)
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Of course it's size first, stamina second, and person third... When I first see a guy (usually in the bus station) I ask to see his penis. Then I ask to see him jack off to see how long it takes him. Finally, I'll check to make sure he is a person and not a horse... like that really matters....
and i wasnt even the bitch this time! 
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This one's been asked in three gazillion differing ways, and the answer never changes. Give me a real man with a heart and a desire to sincerely please me, and he'll do just fine. It doesn't matter if his dick is 5 inches or 10 inches. Not confident yourself? Learn how to LISTEN to a woman, learn how to read her body, and you'll do fine.
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
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Quote by castlequeen
This one's been asked in three gazillion differing ways, and the answer never changes. Give me a real man with a heart and a desire to sincerely please me, and he'll do just fine. It doesn't matter if his dick is 5 inches or 10 inches. Not confident yourself? Learn how to LISTEN to a woman, learn how to read her body, and you'll do fine.
Doh!
And I had to turn about 23 yrs 7 months to wise up to this bit of insight.
I was a late bloomer, what can I say.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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To me, when I look for a guy I look for one that has a great personality...that is one of the most important things to me (at least when forming a long-term relationship). Next comes cleanliness...so clean and preferable hairless cock and balls. Size is certainly not important, but the experience and ability to use his cock is the only thing that really matters to me in the sexual realm.
If you have the looks, oh sure I'll look.. but doesn't mean I'll take you with me. Just because you have a huge bulge in your pants.. so what?? You have to know how to use what you have. Personality will make me look and consider faster and more seriously than anything physical. If you can't keep it up for a long time, hopefully, you know how to do other things until you re-coop, and be able to re-coop more often
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If you can't keep it up for a long time, hopefully, you know how to do other things until you re-coop, and be able to re-coop more often
Recuperation is key. (furiously scribbling notes).
Take heed J&J (Javier and Jebru)! I'm plus 50 and still learning. Where is Marcosurbina at...I'm sure he'd have some tips too. And pictures of naked whales.
Mmmmmmmm...
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.