Virginity is basically an archaic concept promulgated by the patriarchy to maintain the double standard between male sexual norms and what the patriarchy believes should be female sexual norms. The meaning of virginity was intended to connote the absence of male penetration (purity or maidenhood), and generally, no allowance was made for penetration other than by a penis. These days, the term is almost meaningless, as few males care whether a woman is a virgin, and the opportunities for breaking the hymen prior to coitus are much more plentiful.
When I am asked "When did you lose your virginity?" I reply I didn't lose it I shared it with a guy I wanted to.
"Losing" your virginity is impossible - that means you may have misplaced it and may not find it again. Once its gone its gone. One guy I told that to, offered to help me find it again - he deserved to get what he wanted, but it wasnt my virgin experience - obviously.
I believe the sharing,giving, losing (call it what you like) your virgin experience is when a penis penetrates the vagina for the first time - whether the hymen is still present or not due to other activity is immaterial.
Most girls will never forget that experience and have that memory - good or bad - for life. I know I wont and it was good.
A very, male question. I have not had sex with a man. Technically that makes me a virgin. So what?
I'm totally a virgin. Like I am a virgin when it comes to going on a cruise. Never been on one.
if i were a lesbian, i wouldn't consider myself a virgin just because i hadn't had sex with a man. the definition clearly states that a virgin is merely a person who hasn't had sex. i could, however, see how a bisexual person would consider having two separate virginities.
