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What are signs a girl is interested in you? i have never dated and get chicken out when wanting to ask a girl out. need help on building confidence.
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still no confidence
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Really you chicken out ... best you start building your pen, just ask she will only say yes or no. Her lost not yours but until you take that first step, your going to be no better off. As for signals sheesh it can mean so many different things your just quicker to ask! The more you practice, the more confident you become 
If I might suggest.... focus less on trying to determine if a gal is interested in YOU, and simply look for gals that YOU are interested in. Then approach THEM. You don't need to ask them out on a date right away, just find some way to engage in conversation, even if minor at first. Your first contacts can be as innocent as asking about something they are doing, or have (such as in a grocery store, book store, etc.), or asking advice on something innocent but related to what your current environment is. You can even forgo that as your first contact and simply smile at her or say hello, and NOTHING MORE. Each time you find yourself around her, you expand your interaction... OR..... you do it every other time or so. That way it does not look like you are actively hunting her. LOL If she is interested in you, she will show clear signs, and she will probably also seek to engage with YOU.
Warning though... this does not always mean she wants to date you. Women can be VERY friendly without having any ulterior or "sexual" motives. So the real indicator would come imo, if when you ask her out on a date, she accepts.
With all that said, if you are truly looking to find yourself a date, make this behavior standard for ALL interactions with women. Being confident, and friendly, but NOT sexual, can be a huge attraction. Also not looking like you are salivating at the chance to get into their pants is also key. LOL If you don't think you can pull off the confident thing, you can use the "shy" route as well. Some gals love that. Being a bit coy can be a good thing, as long as you are still approachable and you CAN interact. Reserved is GOOD. It can leave some mystery.
These are just some basics, but you have to find what works for YOU. What are your strengths? What can you use to your advantage that is NATURAL to you? But again, I would not worry so much about if a woman is interested in YOU first, but seek out women who YOU are interested in. Then put yourself in positions where they can notice you, and take advantage of the natural interactions that are in front of us every day.
It is kind of like what I say about doing good things for others.... you never have to LOOK for good things to do. Simply open your eyes and see what is in front of you, and then ACT.
Oh, and if you interact with enough women in positive ways (as I suggested above) you may not have to ask anyone out... you may find yourself being the one who is asked out.
Good luck!
Warning though... this does not always mean she wants to date you. Women can be VERY friendly without having any ulterior or "sexual" motives. So the real indicator would come imo, if when you ask her out on a date, she accepts.
With all that said, if you are truly looking to find yourself a date, make this behavior standard for ALL interactions with women. Being confident, and friendly, but NOT sexual, can be a huge attraction. Also not looking like you are salivating at the chance to get into their pants is also key. LOL If you don't think you can pull off the confident thing, you can use the "shy" route as well. Some gals love that. Being a bit coy can be a good thing, as long as you are still approachable and you CAN interact. Reserved is GOOD. It can leave some mystery.
These are just some basics, but you have to find what works for YOU. What are your strengths? What can you use to your advantage that is NATURAL to you? But again, I would not worry so much about if a woman is interested in YOU first, but seek out women who YOU are interested in. Then put yourself in positions where they can notice you, and take advantage of the natural interactions that are in front of us every day.
It is kind of like what I say about doing good things for others.... you never have to LOOK for good things to do. Simply open your eyes and see what is in front of you, and then ACT.
Oh, and if you interact with enough women in positive ways (as I suggested above) you may not have to ask anyone out... you may find yourself being the one who is asked out.
Good luck!