So is anyone into having someone (who your regularly intimate with i.e. a BF or husband) come up to you them randomly and having sex or the reverse are you instigator? Just something curious cause I personally wouldn't rule out just randomly coming behind a girl I was with and pulling her panties down and licking her or a girl who would come up to me and start kissing me or something.
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i've done that to a few guys, and they've never seemed to mind.
if a guy were to do it to me (which has happened), i'm usually initially put off by the attempt, but if he's determined, i quickly become convinced (and a kinda turned on by it). there have been a couple of times, though, when the timing just isn't right, and i've rejected him. this has led to hurt feelings and some resentment. so if you're going to do it, know her (and establish trust earlier) and what's going on at that exact moment well enough to decide if she'd be into it. don't do it just because you're horny and want to fuck. ask her if it's something she might be into. if she responds positively, then wait for the right opportunity. if she says it's not something that's too exciting for her, then don't do it under any circumstances! and respect her if she refuses your advances, even if she earlier said she'd be into it.
if a guy were to do it to me (which has happened), i'm usually initially put off by the attempt, but if he's determined, i quickly become convinced (and a kinda turned on by it). there have been a couple of times, though, when the timing just isn't right, and i've rejected him. this has led to hurt feelings and some resentment. so if you're going to do it, know her (and establish trust earlier) and what's going on at that exact moment well enough to decide if she'd be into it. don't do it just because you're horny and want to fuck. ask her if it's something she might be into. if she responds positively, then wait for the right opportunity. if she says it's not something that's too exciting for her, then don't do it under any circumstances! and respect her if she refuses your advances, even if she earlier said she'd be into it.
*kisses*
-Kristen
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-Kristen
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I don't know if this qualifies as 'surprise or random sex' but I am definitely into the serendipitous type as opposed to the planned variety. However, when there is no plan, the possibility of unexpectedly negative consequences greatly increases. Maybe that's what makes it so much fun!
Example: As the host of a company sponsored party I was taken aside and apologized to by the wife of one of our male employees. She, thinking she recognized a male backside to be that of her husband, had reached between the man's legs and grabbed his dick and balls. But when he turned around with a grin on his face, she realized it was not only not her husband, but that she had just fondled a total stranger.
Example: As the host of a company sponsored party I was taken aside and apologized to by the wife of one of our male employees. She, thinking she recognized a male backside to be that of her husband, had reached between the man's legs and grabbed his dick and balls. But when he turned around with a grin on his face, she realized it was not only not her husband, but that she had just fondled a total stranger.
If you spend much of your time at home either naked or at least going commando, there is significant possibility of being slipped a length every time you bend over. It's OK, although sometimes a little inconvenient if, for instance, you're trying to find something at the bottom of a chest freezer (as happened not so long ago!).