Soo, the most I've ever done is kiss a girl. I considered myself straight most of my life and my fiancee has no idea that lately all I can seem to do is fantasize about women. It's getting to the point where the urge is unbearable. What should I dooo and would you help? ;)
Many of us have been in that position and were not certain just what direction we should go in. I now look back and only wished that I had found the wonderful experiences that women can enjoy together earlier. You may find that you are, the term generally used is Bi-Sexual, one I don't care for. Or You may at some point find you are actually a Lesbian. Or maybe your really are straight. It seems to me that you need to explore your sexuality and find just where you are most comfortable.
You certainly need to explore these feeling with you Fiancee. He needs to know of these feeling and how they may effect your relationship with him. He may not be able to handle the idea, but many men are really turned on with the idea.
You are young and should not be thinking of any long term relationship until you know who you are and exactly what your sexuality is.
From One Old Enough to be your Mom!
Try it and see if you like it, if you like girls you probably will, if you don't at least you will have experimented and know the answer.
i am a lesbian and must say,life for me is beautiful,i have wonderful friends,male and female,and and love being with and around like minded people..
don't experiment with a guilty feeling or test the water because you are inquisitive,use the opportunity to feel the beauty and pleasure,then allow nature to take its course..
oxo
tas
I had my first experience with another girl in junior high and never again until college. Thought I was just experimenting until I met my now husband and still had these strong urges. At times I wanted other women more than my own husband. Now I'm comfortable admitting I'm bi-sexual and love sharing myself with both men and women.
