Terribly Strong Lesbian Urges

2 Mar 2011

Soo, the most I've ever done is kiss a girl. I considered myself straight most of my life and my fiancee has no idea that lately all I can seem to do is fantasize about women. It's getting to the point where the urge is unbearable. What should I dooo and would you help? ;)

3 Mar 2011

Many of us have been in that position and were not certain just what direction we should go in. I now look back and only wished that I had found the wonderful experiences that women can enjoy together earlier. You may find that you are, the term generally used is Bi-Sexual, one I don't care for. Or You may at some point find you are actually a Lesbian. Or maybe your really are straight. It seems to me that you need to explore your sexuality and find just where you are most comfortable.

You certainly need to explore these feeling with you Fiancee. He needs to know of these feeling and how they may effect your relationship with him. He may not be able to handle the idea, but many men are really turned on with the idea.

You are young and should not be thinking of any long term relationship until you know who you are and exactly what your sexuality is.

From One Old Enough to be your Mom!

3 Mar 2011

Quote by WHR43
Many of us have been in that position and were not certain just what direction we should go in. I now look back and only wished that I had found the wonderful experiences that women can enjoy together earlier. You may find that you are, the term generally used is Bi-Sexual, one I don't care for. Or You may at some point find you are actually a Lesbian. Or maybe your really are straight. It seems to me that you need to explore your sexuality and find just where you are most comfortable.

You certainly need to explore these feeling with you Fiancee. He needs to know of these feeling and how they may effect your relationship with him. He may not be able to handle the idea, but many men are really turned on with the idea.

You are young and should not be thinking of any long term relationship until you know who you are and exactly what your sexuality is.

From One Old Enough to be your Mom!

I couldnt agree more!! You need to find out who you are sexually, if you dont you will never be totally happy. But you also need to discuss these feelings with your fiancee if you truly love him. I found out at a very young age that I loved being with women sexually, but repressed these feelings throughout my marriage. I never discussed them with my husband(although I doubt the asshole would have approved) but I now regret not telling him. There is nothing worng with experimenting to find out who you are. It is all part of the "Journey". You may find you love being with women or maybe you wont like it. but not knowing is not fair to yourself.

I too am old enough to be your mom and I have encouraged my daughters to experiment if they feel like it is something they may want to do. Some people may say that makes me a bad mother, but I just want them to know who they truly are. And today, it is not the it once was, at least for women. Good Luck with your journey!

3 Mar 2011

Try it and see if you like it, if you like girls you probably will, if you don't at least you will have experimented and know the answer.

20 Mar 2011

i am a lesbian and must say,life for me is beautiful,i have wonderful friends,male and female,and and love being with and around like minded people..
don't experiment with a guilty feeling or test the water because you are inquisitive,use the opportunity to feel the beauty and pleasure,then allow nature to take its course..
oxo
tas

20 Mar 2011

I had my first experience with another girl in junior high and never again until college. Thought I was just experimenting until I met my now husband and still had these strong urges. At times I wanted other women more than my own husband. Now I'm comfortable admitting I'm bi-sexual and love sharing myself with both men and women.

29 Jan 2026

Its funny - I'm normally a raging heterosexual - but I also really enjoy FMF threesomes with a few female friends. I have had only a few one-on-one FF relationships, and they have been wonderful and relaxing and unhurried... I have not been able to decide what "type" of girl attracts me - I love nice figures, nice breasts, intelligence, manners, general physical attractiveness. One girl I knew in college was a tiny girl - something like me - small breasted and willowy. I sat next to her in physics class, and what attracted me to her was her scent. She didn't wear perfume or body wash - it was just her natural scent. It took me about a half hour of inhaling her - I introduced myself and we hit it off as friends. We studied and partied together - it took about a month before it turned physics - but it was incredible. I've known girls with bigger boobs, nicer butts - but Tanya just filled my senses. I had a boyfriend at the time that I was totally happy with - we fucked all the time and we were faithful to each other, Tanya also had a boyfriend, But Tanya --- after a few afternoons together - and a winter weekend in a motel on Cape Cod off-season - I was thinking about what I am. She and I chatted and decided that we were "bi-curious" - neither of us sought out women, but simultaneously were not against a relationship with one. I talked about her with my bf at the time, and it immediately turned him on (and that was not unexpected) - but, he did NOT want to watch us together, instead he wanted to be with us together. I was leery - a threesome with good friends didn't seem like a great idea - but it turned out to be absolutely delightful. Introducing a guy into out FF was perfect - we could be insatiable about fucking, but still intimate and exploring each other. The penis added another layer. Tanya invited her bf to join her and me -- and that was great, too - being with a new guy is always exciting and it certainly fed to raging hetero in me.

Typing this has made me horny.