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met a new girl and she said she loves to be pursued!

suggestions for pursuit?.... she may be the one!
Dear,
We may ALL be the one!!

Be attentive; discover her interests and desires; be atuned to what pleases her and do it.....but do not overdo it!! Her stating that she loves to be pursued implies that she WANTS you attention I believe. and lastly, be yourself.....no good will ultimately come from pretending to be something you are not.

Best luck, on your 'chase'.
If you ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it.................Frank Lloyd Wright

I always practice obedience, when it's in my best interest.
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Dear,
We may ALL be the one!!

Be attentive; discover her interests and desires; be atuned to what pleases her and do it.....but do not overdo it!! Her stating that she loves to be pursued implies that she WANTS you attention I believe. and lastly, be yourself.....no good will ultimately come from pretending to be something you are not.

Best luck, on your 'chase'.


I agree with Redlips. A little game "catch me if you can" can be fun, but she sounds like she wants you to kiss her ass and flaunt over her. She says she likes to be pursued, but does she like to be caught? Be careful she just doesnt use you for what she can get. But if you are sure, then have fun and good luck!
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I agree with Redlips. A little game "catch me if you can" can be fun, but she sounds like she wants you to kiss her ass and flaunt over her. She says she likes to be pursued, but does she like to be caught? Be careful she just doesnt use you for what she can get. But if you are sure, then have fun and good luck!


Totally agree. Most girls who like to be pursued aren't that self-aware and certainly wouldn't tell the guy outright - it kinda spoils the authenticity of the chase.

She might just be implying that she likes attention. I would chase... then pull back a bit... and then chase again. It will keep her on her toes and keep her interest. Don't just lay it on thick and take the pursuit to the extreme with endless calls, gifts and extravagant dates.

And as well - if it seems like too much of a game, or something where she's using this as an excuse to keep you on the hook but not totally commit or where she's using you unfairly and obviously - then I'd bail on the whole situation.

The chase is fun in the beginning but I was in a relationship with someone where it always seemed like a game and while it keeps things exciting on some level because of the constant uncertainty - it's also extremely high maintenance and these kinds of relationships rarely go the distance in a healthy way.
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I agree with Redlips. A little game "catch me if you can" can be fun, but she sounds like she wants you to kiss her ass and flaunt over her. She says she likes to be pursued, but does she like to be caught? Be careful she just doesnt use you for what she can get. But if you are sure, then have fun and good luck!


I have been trying to catch that Nikki703 for a couple of years. Please someone help me because I have not been successful!
Glad these very wise ladies are saying this. She's working you. I wouldn't be surprised if she is going to have some other guy watching you chase her, because she is working him, too. Do nothing.
I wanna chase Nikki too.
thanks lush friends!!!
I wish I'd had the benefit of this advice when I was younger ... learning by mistake is the most painful way!

You speak wise words, Ladies of Lush!
The hunter and the hunted question.

I can only be hunted.

I'm not brave or forward enough to go hunting myself.