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The male's chest/torso/posture

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I've gone back two years and see no previous questions nor really, much discussion of this...

When I was pre-pubescent teen, I had a lazy habit of slouching or slumping when I would sit around 'the guys'...my Father would often smack me with a verbal equivalent of a rolled-up newspaper and then say, "Sit up straight, damn it...throw your chest out slightly, or you'll become a hunchback!"

Ladies, does a man's chest/upper torso figure in your equation very much, when you first size a man up?

Flat chested yet defined? Bulging and lean pecs? Or slightly puffy Moobs? What if there is a slight concave 'dip' where the man's sternum is located - as is the case with myself?

The discussion of furriness or lack thereof has been beaten to death...but I don't recall ever seeing much discussion about the cut of a man's torso... Do you prefer the classic V cut or does it even make your pupils swell noticeably to you?
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When I first 'size a man up' on a physical level... I go for face first, chest/torso second. For me, face will always take precedence over the body 100% of the time.

Having said that, I do love a 'classic V cut', defined but athletic/lean body. I am actually turned off by overly-bulky or steroid bods.

After that, people can start getting picky with things like 'concave dips' or exact shaping or abs. I've never dated a guy just because he had a great body. There's a lot more to it than that. An athletic build will get my attention first and foremost but my attention can drop pretty quickly if that's all he has going for him. Conversely, once I'm attracted to who he is, I'm not going to dump someone because of some perceived physical imperfection.

This is all within reason, of course. For me, moobs would be hard to overlook... just being honest.
To me, a guy's chest can show a few things when first seeing him.

Some of my favorite attractions to a guy is his confidence and strength (doesn't have to be GREAT strength) just a masculine strength. And the chest can show that.

A man with confidence stands straighter which makes the shape and such of his chest more defined. It can also show if he takes care of himself.

I, too, don't find an unnatural muscle bound chest attractive and details like dips and concaves really don't matter when it's his confidence, just male strength, and taking care of himself that shows.
At the end of the day all those pecks and lean muscles turn to mush ha ha; what matters is does the guy have a corstic sense of homour like WMM LOL. Coz when your both old, the humour will see you through!!!
Serious now, yeah it's nice to have a toned male body. But to me what most important is what he does with his fingers and other area's. Also I want a man whom I can connect with on a comedic level and have some connection with shared music. A nice warm smile and a laugh when I make him laugh is a big plus for me.
Toned body is nice, but doesnt have to be overly muscular. Just like to see a guy who takes care of himself. But The thing that gets me first are his eyes and that he is confident with sense of humor. But if you are arrogant, YOU HAVENT GOT A PRAYER!!