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What do you women jerk off to? Please answer the sub questions if possible

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1. If its porn are there any specific categories you watch?
2. If its erotic stories are there any specific categories?
3. Do women ever jerk off with pictures? like pictures of guys you slept with or guys you want to sleep with. Im not saying nudes or dick pics just pictures that remind you what the person looks like and helps you fantasise?
4. Iv watched porn where a woman was masturbating to straight porn and she was saying the guy in the video should fuck the woman harder. Why was she saying that instead of something like fuck me harder? Do women not picture them self as the woman in the scene?

5. How do women think of their pussy in terms of sex? Obviously women can play a dominant or submissive role when it comes to sex but how do women think about sex in their mind when they aren't thinking in terms of playing that dominant or submissive role for example do women think of it as they want to fuck a guy or do they think of it as they want to be fucked by a guy? how are most women thinking about it? like do the physical differences between men and women make women think of sex any different?
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1. If its porn are there any specific categories you watch?
2. If its erotic stories are there any specific categories?
3. Do women ever jerk off with pictures? like pictures of guys you slept with or guys you want to sleep with. Im not saying nudes or dick pics just pictures that remind you what the person looks like and helps you fantasise?
4. Iv watched porn where a woman was masturbating to straight porn and she was saying the guy in the video should fuck the woman harder. Why was she saying that instead of something like fuck me harder? Do women not picture them self as the woman in the scene?

5. How do women think of their pussy in terms of sex? Obviously women can play a dominant or submissive role when it comes to sex but how do women think about sex in their mind when they aren't thinking in terms of playing that dominant or submissive role for example do women think of it as they want to fuck a guy or do they think of it as they want to be fucked by a guy? how are most women thinking about it? like do the physical differences between men and women make women think of sex any different?


The last two questions are pretty in depth and hard to understand so I may not be able to answer them but I will try.

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1. For me, I like interaction between people, even over the internet. It feels more personal and it makes me comfortable so as far as porn goes, so I like the amateur sections. Men masturbating is always a favorite for me and what turns me on the most so that's where I go first. I love women too though so lesbian porn is always an option as well if I want something a little less "personable" and a little more "staged/rehearsed." ( that make sense? Hope so.)

2. For erotic stories, I like the Love Stories, Lesbian, and Straight Sex categories on Lush the most. I haven't ventured too far yet but I will so this answer is subject to change.

3. Yes, I like pictures and videos to use. Especially if they come from someone I really enjoy looking at and interacting sexually with.

4. Some women do not think of themselves as the person in the porn they are watching and then some women do. It's all about preference.

5. I'm honestly not sure how to answer this properly but going with your example as a clue here: I think it would depend on their preference in addition to their personality. I know when I see a man that I want to have sex with, I'll say "I want to fuck him" and that in of itself can showcase the dominant nature of my personality. (following along?) But then another women could just as easily say "I want him to fuck me" and that might show her submissive side. Some can even do both and switch it up depending on the guy. I don't think we think of sex that much different from men though. We view sex as an intimate thing just like ya'll do. (that's the best answer I have for that, lol. Sorry)
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I may be quite different from other women, in that the only thing I have ever used to masturbate with is my imagination, my memories, or my fantasies. I never use pictures, porn, or stories, or even a cybering partner. I would imagine those are more the kinds of things that guys masturbate with. They are all very distracting to me. I think of someone I've had sex with, or want to have sex with. I remember how we led up to it, or how I could imagine leading up to it with someone I've never actually had sex with. I picture the whole scenario playing out in my mind, the moment he enters me, his or her expressions, the power and intimacy of our connection, how he or she cums. My fantasy partner always cums before I do if it's a girl, and even if I'm thinking about a guy, I imagine him cumming in me just moments before I cum.

Your first four questions don't really apply to me, but as for the last question, I am sometimes submissive and sometimes dominant. I can switch roles very easily, and enjoy both sexually. With guys, I both want to fuck them and be fucked by them, depending on their personality and aggressiveness. I only think about my pussy insofar as the feelings and sensations I get from her while I'm jilling. Sometimes, part of my fantasy is my partner's reaction when they see my naked body for the first time, because that is usually a rather memorable part of an experience I'm recalling when I'm remembering sex with someone I've already had. Not only the physical differences, but the emotional differences play a significant part in my fantasies depending on whether I'm imagining sex with a guy or another woman. Oral is a huge part with another woman, while less so with a guy. I'm thinking about another woman's face and mouth more than anything when I'm fantasizing about being with another woman. While imagining a guy, I'm thinking more about his body and his cock, along with the look of awe in his face when he looks down at me. I love that look!
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The last two questions are pretty in depth and hard to understand so I may not be able to answer them but I will try.

OKay...
1. For me, I like interaction between people, even over the internet. It feels more personal and it makes me comfortable so as far as porn goes, so I like the amateur sections. Men masturbating is always a favorite for me and what turns me on the most so that's where I go first. I love women too though so lesbian porn is always an option as well if I want something a little less "personable" and a little more "staged/rehearsed." ( that make sense? Hope so.)

2. For erotic stories, I like the Love Stories, Lesbian, and Straight Sex categories on Lush the most. I haven't ventured too far yet but I will so this answer is subject to change.

3. Yes, I like pictures and videos to use. Especially if they come from someone I really enjoy looking at and interacting sexually with.

4. Some women do not think of themselves as the person in the porn they are watching and then some women do. It's all about preference.

5. I'm honestly not sure how to answer this properly but going with your example as a clue here: I think it would depend on their preference in addition to their personality. I know when I see a man that I want to have sex with, I'll say "I want to fuck him" and that in of itself can showcase the dominant nature of my personality. (following along?) But then another women could just as easily say "I want him to fuck me" and that might show her submissive side. Some can even do both and switch it up depending on the guy. I don't think we think of sex that much different from men though. We view sex as an intimate thing just like ya'll do. (that's the best answer I have for that, lol. Sorry)



Thanks for replying. Cool I didn't know women were into watching men masturbating in the same way we like to watch women but then it makes sense if women aren't that different.

I like lesbian porn too but I mainly watch it because I dont like straight porn because it has other men in it. I like to think I'm the one pleasing the women and if another mans in it that kind of ruins that whole idea. If theres 2 women seeing another woman isnt ruining the idea of seeing a woman being pleased and I can easily imagine myself in place of the other woman thats fingering or giving oral etc.

I think you explained the last one pretty well. The reason I was asking how women think of sex is because as a guy when I think of sex I think of it from the perspective that I want to fuck her meaning I would want to put my dick inside her. Thats basically the first thing that comes to my mind. I thought women probably see it from the opposite perspective that they want to be fucked / want our dick inside them. I thought that more because of the physical differences. The reason its confusing is because I thought women can play a dominant or submissive role in both situations in the situation where she wants to be fucked she might be dominant by telling the guy how she wants to be fucked and if she's dominant in the situation where she wants to fuck the guy maybe she's on top controlling the position, speed, depth etc and the guy is being fucked by her.
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I may be quite different from other women, in that the only thing I have ever used to masturbate with is my imagination, my memories, or my fantasies. I never use pictures, porn, or stories, or even a cybering partner. I would imagine those are more the kinds of things that guys masturbate with. They are all very distracting to me. I think of someone I've had sex with, or want to have sex with. I remember how we led up to it, or how I could imagine leading up to it with someone I've never actually had sex with. I picture the whole scenario playing out in my mind, the moment he enters me, his or her expressions, the power and intimacy of our connection, how he or she cums. My fantasy partner always cums before I do if it's a girl, and even if I'm thinking about a guy, I imagine him cumming in me just moments before I cum.

Your first four questions don't really apply to me, but as for the last question, I am sometimes submissive and sometimes dominant. I can switch roles very easily, and enjoy both sexually. With guys, I both want to fuck them and be fucked by them, depending on their personality and aggressiveness. I only think about my pussy insofar as the feelings and sensations I get from her while I'm jilling. Sometimes, part of my fantasy is my partner's reaction when they see my naked body for the first time, because that is usually a rather memorable part of an experience I'm recalling when I'm remembering sex with someone I've already had. Not only the physical differences, but the emotional differences play a significant part in my fantasies depending on whether I'm imagining sex with a guy or another woman. Oral is a huge part with another woman, while less so with a guy. I'm thinking about another woman's face and mouth more than anything when I'm fantasizing about being with another woman. While imagining a guy, I'm thinking more about his body and his cock, along with the look of awe in his face when he looks down at me. I love that look!


I think your right. I mostly masturbate to porn I think 90% maybe even more I get a lot from audio visual stimulation. Audio Stories are ok but if its the audio of a woman masturbating and telling what she's doing thats just as good as porn. Stories I find reading them distracting. I have masturbated while cybering. Iv looked at pictures but I wasn't masturbating to the picture its self its like you look at her face and you have her face fresh in your imagination to play out the scenarios you want thats usually old exs or women I haven't fucked yet but would want to fuck.

I personally like giving a woman oral a lot probably just as much as another woman would. I crave having a woman's pussy in my mouth all the time. Iv always liked pleasing women. If I have sex and I cum but the woman didn't cum I feel like the sex wasn't fulfilling for me and I feel like I didn't do my job properly. If I have sex and she cums then when I cum sex it just feels very fulfilling and like I did my job. Iv always beleived a womans needs are just as important in bed. Iv never really watched straight porn because of the other guys in it that means watching a lot of solo or lesbian porn I think because of watching so much lesbian porn and because I like pleasing women so Im that much more interested in going slow and giving oral and fingering etc